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MyDirtySecr3t

Imagine if women constantly asked penis size questions like guys did on here.... "People say tightness doesn't matter, other people say it does. How tight do you expect a girl to be you wanna go home at the bar?" I'd think an expectation of how well they know how to please a woman regardless of size is what's important.. and aside from that how polite/funny/confident they are probably takes precident...


DwayneThRocksJohnson

ok but realistically heterosexual women talk and seem to care more about size than heterosexual men talk and care about tightness


eastTN

Tight is overrated anyway


myhobbythrowaway

Pfaff. Tightness is a big deal during PIV. I'm not getting off when it feels like I'm pounding jello. A grip inside creates a wonderful feeling on the head and shaft. When she's tight I'm far more likely to cum.


[deleted]

Penis size seems to be consistently more important to guys than girls. Just an observation.


Fleischpeitsch

It's not guys that invented terms like Big Dick Energy, it's not guys that make fun of small dicks and accuse guys with trucks of compensating, it's not guys that are the primary viewers and target audience of big dick porn, etc Guys wouldn't care so much if women wouldn't reinforce that idea constantly


[deleted]

I think it's a select few women reinforcing that - the vocal minority.


itxtalone

if the guy is telling me the size of his dick. I'm not going home with him.


Slade1911

No doubt, that would be the red flag to move on.


Zombie-Giraffe

I expect him to be nice and respectful and to know that spitting on your hand does not count as foreplay. There is no size requirement. I had horrible sex with dudes that had a big dick and great sex with dudes that had small dicks.


cath_chan_xo

Technically it does matter in a sense because not to be rude or anything, girls would find it hard to get off from a micro penis or a penis that’s like for example 1 inch 🙃💔


Zombie-Giraffe

lots of women never come from PIV sex, regardless of the size of the penis. Luckily, there are other ways to make a woman cum.


eastTN

Yeah I was just wondering what it would need to be to not be disappointed with a rando hookup


cath_chan_xo

Just as long as it’s a decent average size I’m good imo, if it’s something I can’t grip with one hand it’ll be a bit difficult to enjoy imo


CharmedCandle

Woman that care about size don't take random guys from the bar home but i'd assume they expect average


piggynorant

any size but yours


eastTN

Walked right into that one


piggynorant

didn't walk out of the bar with anyone though


FlySchoolgirl

He already died jeez


Baking_in_boots

It matters to an extent. It doesn’t need to be huge but if it’s the size of my thumb it’s not going to be enjoyable for me.


eastTN

So what’s the threshold that you’d be okay with and not disappointed with a rando


Lanabarefoot

I'm married now and covid has ended our bar games for now...but honestly, from my college years...if I wanted to go home with a guy from a bar/party/etc...in other words, I was attracted to him, it wasn't because of what was in his pants or might be in his pants. So I would have no expectations set at all for that kind of thing. No matter what size was down there when we got home, we would have some kind of fun since I was attracted to THEM, not their penis


luke1989uk

I like being teased for my tiny one


tindarius

Women will always say they don't care about your tiny pp but as soon as you make them mad they start talking about how small you are.... and I'm above average so....


[deleted]

I. Do. Not. Care. Penis size (both length and girth) is probably one of the last things I think about. The way you look in clothing and the way you act is way more important.


Fleischpeitsch

Many people will altruistically lie or use double-speak to claim that size doesn't matter, like "size doesn't matter, if he's a selfish lover" "size doesn't matter, if he compensates by by using toys or wearing a sleeve" "size doesn't matter, girth does" "size doesn't matter, unless he's small" but in anonymous studies they will be more honest about their preferences, so let's take a look at those instead of just asking strangers and hoping that they'll be honest. Vaginal orgasms are directly related to dick size. Girth brings the clitoris closer to the entry and the stretching feels extra nice. Length allows you to hit the deep spots at the very end of the vaginal canal. The A and P spots are named after the [Anterior and Posterior Fornix](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginal_fornix#/media/File%3AGray1166.png) and here's some more information on them and the importance of size: https://www.thrillist.com/sex-dating/nation/posterior-fornix-cul-de-sac-vs-g-spot-orgasm >What's being named the cul-de-sac is the area at the back of the vagina, behind the cervix. >The vagina balloons out when a woman is sexually aroused, and space opens up away from the cervix, leaving room for penetration and friction. If you haven't opened up yet and you hit the cervix (bottoming out), it's less than fun. But if you can wind your way down this new Lover's Lane, you can happily park it at the cul-de-sac for some excellent sexing. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anterior_fornix_erogenous_zone >The anterior fornix erogenous zone (also known as the AFE zone, AFE, A-spot, epicenter, deep spot or second G-spot) is a female erogenous zone that when stimulated can lead to rapid vaginal lubrication and arousal, sometimes without any other form of stimulation, with continued stimulation resulting in an intense orgasm https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/a-spot >Its depth is why some call it, colloquially, the deep spot. >“People who have experienced orgasms through deep vaginal penetration have likely had an A-spot orgasm,” says Dr. Sadie, adding that they’re usually more intense and longer lasting than G-spot orgasms. >“I’ve always needed really deep, rough penetration in order to orgasm,” says Sam F., 23. “I didn’t know that what I was experiencing was likely an A-spot orgasm until I found some article online about it.” https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/23006745/ >Likelihood of orgasm with a longer penis was related to greater vaginal orgasm frequency but unrelated to frequencies of other sexual behaviors, including clitoral orgasm. >Women who prefer deeper penile-vaginal stimulation are more likely to have vaginal orgasm https://www.livescience.com/23785-penis-size-matters-orgasms.html >A new study finds that women who have frequent vaginal orgasms are more likely than other women to say they climax more easily with men with larger penises https://www.glamour.com/story/sorry-science-but-this-just-is >When it comes to a one-night stand, some guys just don't measure up >When asked to choose which of the 33 models they would prefer for a one-time partner, women selected models with slightly bigger girths than what they selected for a long-term relationship. >So, in some ways, this makes perfect sense. Larger girth is associated with bringing the clitoris closest to the vagina, which can help with orgasm, and I assume women are more concerned solely with sexual pleasure in a one-night thing than in a relationship, where there are other many factors to consider. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26332467/ >Women selected amongst 33 3D models. >Women preferred a penis of slightly larger circumference and length for one-time (length = 6.4 inches/16.3 cm, circumference = 5.0 inches/12.7 cm) versus long-term (length = 6.3 inches/16.0 cm, circumference = 4.8 inches/12.2 cm) sexual partners. On average women prefer a [top 10% penis](https://imgur.com/a/WO0iQ1P), and also the fact that they prefer bigger cocks for casual sex shows that they prefer them but are willing to compromise a bit for relationships.


eastTN

Did you have that saved ready to answer for when the next person asks about size? Either way, very informative ty


Fleischpeitsch

>Did you have that saved ready to answer for when the next person asks about size? Yeah


Meat_Greet

Brah🤦🏼‍♂️ to much porn for you.


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pm-small-asian-boobs

Lot's of information can be grabbed from how often this question get's asked. The bottomline is that it matters *to a degree* but it's not the end all. With that I mean is that the person attached to the penis outweighs the size of it 90% of the time. If you are a nice, charming, kind, etc person that treats their partner with kindness and you know, like a human being instead of a piece of meat to fuck then you'll get so much further than going "Yo I got a big dick wanna fuck". Off course that last thing works on some people hench I said 90% and not 100%. And what I mean with it mattering to a degree is that it matters as there is off course a lower limit for a lot of people. Most people would not enjoy a 1 inch/micropenis and that's simply the truth. But if we are talking a more normal 4-6inch average where most guys fall into then most of the above applies instead. This is a broad generalisation off course but that's just some of the stuff I grasped from these various threads.


Sorkel3

Urmom prefers a monster.


dollyisapardon

It never mattered, until it did and they were pleasantly surprised. But that's not what got the girl home... respect, care and a good sense of humor did.


Something_Thick

Who needs penis size when you've been starving for a good meal for months?


BlackDragonDick

1"- 3"


kz_kandie

For vaginally sex The vaginally canals has a max depth of 7" although some vaginas are shallower so imo anything over 7" wouldn't work well for vaginally sex unless they are careful. If you like being pounded into the mattress then a 7" and up would definitely hurt. I think for me 6.5 is the Max cuz I like hard fucks lol buuuuuut I also have a fat ass sooo I guess a guy who is bigger would work if the insertable length is still around 6.5 max. Thickness is fun of course but if he's thick and fucking me hard the. It can hurt or I could be torn which is just.....nooooooo Blow jobs If I candeep throat then it's big enough lol if but if he's to thick then I can't deep throat 😔.