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The pep talk we all need in our life

The pep talk we all need in our life

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AthenianWaters

As someone with a sister 10 years older than me, this girl is just soooo happy her sister is paying attention to her. That’s why she’s being a bit over the top


Outsider17

As someone with a brother and sister that are 15 years younger than me, now I feel bad when I don't pay attention to them...


joss29

I see my teen sisters mb once a year but thats just cus i dont want them to see me at my lowest point which has lasted for a few years now Edit: this is the most loved ive felt in a long time. Thank you all.


penguin_chacha

Same reason why I've been avoiding a lot of extended family...why is my lowest point not ending?


roguetroll

Because you can’t wait for that shit. You need to start climbing out of that hole by making every day a little better than the previous day.


frogNews

It’s a deep dark pit. Only gets better when… *you’re batman* LOL ^(Seriously though, reach out to your siblings/fam! Tons of homeless people don’t even reach out just from that same thought. They then miss the chance to get help, even if their family is only 15min by car away.)


Juof

Are you me?


DigbyBrouge

Going on four years now. Wish I could say it gets better…


Frontbutt3

Study dharma


TPWALW

It’s a vicious cycle. See if getting more time with them actually pulls you up a bit.


genonepointfive

It doesn't matter to them


Shortdast0ck

Where you are in life doesn’t matter. You’re still family. They will love you regardless and learn from you either way. Either you’re the blueprint for success or the warning tale of what not to do. Either way, who cares? As long as you care about each other, that’s all that matter. Never let your pride dictate when you should or shouldn’t love or be loved.


Revolutionary_Dingo

Go see em anyway. Maybe they’ll pick you up for a few hours. If you constantly live at the low point it starts feeling normal. A little pick me up could do wonders.


Darth-Faker

Your lowest point yet … so go see your siblings


Ecstatic-Particular3

Go see them anyway. They’ll be happy to see you regardless


AthenianWaters

Hey don’t feel bad! Hopefully this knowledge can give you some insight on your siblings’ perspectives. From my sisters’ perspective, I was a spoiled baby. From mine, my parents were so burnt out on raising them that I didn’t get nearly as much attention and was constantly begging for it. I think a little empathy goes a long way in a sibling relationship.


thisprettyplant

Some siblings turn out to be judgmental your whole life and then turn into unrecognizable narcissists just because they pass the bar after law school. Empathy went a long way away from her perspective at a certain point in her life and now I can only be around her for a very short amount of time before I want to throw up.


sleeplessGoon

They can be unrecognizable narcs even without a bar exam. I miss being younger & ignorant to family dynamics


decorona

It's hard man. I'm ten over my little bro. I cheer him on in his endeavors, but we are just in two different worlds


Berubara

Just wait till they hit the late teens. You can watch movies and TV shows together and bond over that.


Essex626

As someone with a sister 11 years younger than me, just be there as they become adults, and look forward to developing that relationship with them. I'm so close to my sister now when I'm 35 and she's 24, even though through her childhood and teen years I barely knew her. She's one of my closest friends now.


Mapo1

Bro same, i didn’t expect this guilt to hit me hard while browsing Reddit


Mal-nacido

Why do you think she grabbed her head because she doesn’t usually pay attention to her younger sister


xelihope

The lament of younger siblings everywhere. I was the annoying little sister because I JUST WANTED TO PLAY GAMES WITH YOU BRO. You were the coolest person to hang out with for many years in my eyes.


bluesucculentonline

Ugh I feel that. Younger siblings just want that attention and approval because the older ones are the coolest in our eyes.


AthenianWaters

Telling your therapist over and over again for 10 years will make you feel a little bit better from my experience.


Ancient-Apartment-23

Relatable content


earphonecreditroom

Great perspective!


BenjiTheChosen1

Can confirm, i have a sister that's about 10 years younger than me and whenever i play video games, football or go mountain biking with her she's super excited and happy, kids love attention from older siblings, make sure you remember to show some love if you have a younger brother/sister


KnightFox

Ugh yeah. When my brother and I were young kids we hung out with our four year older sister all the time and it was great! Then she got to high school and was annoyed we were always, "bothering her" but really we just wanted hang out with her.


newtoallthisshitt

She’s like “oh I got her attention? im using this moment y’all watch this” 🤣🤣


rr777

Bars, outer space and dream job. Soon to be a drunk astronaut.


Wootbeers

Hashtag lifegoals


hacky_potter

Just don't throw up in the helmet


AirlineEasy

Why did you write hashtag? Couldn't you actually use the #Hashtag?


SirSpankalott

Why use hashtag when you can use UTF-16? Then it would be u0048\u0061\u0073\u0068\u0074\u0061\u0067


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CoopedUp1313

Username checks out :)


Freeman2694

That would be Hashtag sir, not hashtag! Btw even simple he could use u0023


beelzybubby

#When I use hashtag on reddit my words get big.


I_FAP_TO_LOL_HENTAI

Can be fixed by adding a \ before. \#likethis


HornyTrueGentleman

People who write # instead hastag cant spell numbers.


HornyTrueGentleman

Well, shit.


XtETsONerIns

This pep talk would be so motivational for me . I want my could kid talk like that , it will surely boost myself especially when Im down. I love that kid !


auchnureinmensch

Kids talk like that cause someone talks to them like that. That someone for your kid is ideally you. Boost that little mf as best as you can.


ChrystalGuidry

Wow, the coolest sister ever. She`s telling no matter what makes you happy go for it, I will always here to support you.


andreasbeer1981

If you want to be a locomotive, you can do it. If you want to be a dward, go for it!


No_Refrigerator4584

Musk finally gets to Mars only to find that this girl already opened the first bar there.


nomadic_trader

Imagine hangovers on Mars. oyyy. ​ "Why is that airlock SO LOUD??"


No_Refrigerator4584

“Crack a window, will ya?”


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CarolinLink

Cant believe she had that kind of thinking with her young age. Such a good adviser, well grown child.


mrdtek

Like an astronaut in the ocean 🎵


Demonweed

Richard Branson just found his first bartender for the hotel on the Moon.


MythicalDisneyBitch

Little sis got no time for your pity party... almost got my ass up off the couch


HermitheKermi

If YOU want to get your ass up off that couch, YOU get your ass up off that couch! Okay? Okay!


treerabbit23

BRB, fixing what I can.


Zob_Rombie_

Fuck me, this is relatable.


Roll4Initiative20

If you want to keep your ass on that couch you keep your ass on that couch! Okay?!


Impressive_Wolf_1688

Okay. But, what if there's a more comfortable couch two feet away? Do you think I can make it?


ReallyOldBrownDogAle

This operation will require extensive planning. Eh, maybe tomorrow.


DessertTwink

Ugh fine I'll go finish packing


0LetThemEatCake

You want to get your ass off that couch? YOU GET YOUR ASS OFF THAT COUCH! You want to get into your sweatpants? YOU GET INTO THOSE SWEATPANTS! You can do it!!!


MasterBathingBear

Getting into sweatpants requires getting off the couch so I’m out dog.


SgtArpin

Almost...


MythicalDisneyBitch

Ain't no power in this world that will separate my ass from my couch


eIizabethdewitt

That nose boop at the end QQ♡


robotsongs

Anyone know what older sister says at the end right before the boop?


parkchopa

I THINK she is saying “My eyes are cross eyed looking like this”


ashley-hazers

“I’m going cross-eyed looking at you like this.”


Kiwiteepee

I absolutely would have cried if my sister did that, because I'm the most sentimental person ever 😂


medicus_vulneratum

I cried at this and I have no brothers or sisters


RembrandtMaven

the little sister we need but not the sister we deserve..


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Sarenai7

Oof I felt this one


StarsDreamsAndMore

I have 4 siblings and only 1 of them I talk to regularly. Siblings are cool but not everyone is super close with them.


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StarsDreamsAndMore

I mean my dad is 0/10. His family doesn't even know where he lives. Myself included. lol


quincyd

That little girl has drunk girl in a bar bathroom energy. 😄


CumulativeHazard

I think we should all strive to be more like drunk girls in bar bathrooms


PurpleMarmite

Drunk bathroom girls are an amazing sisterhood! They've had my back more than once when a date went wrong. Edited to add (because it is relevant) i met my best friend when we were both drunk bathroom girls trying to support a stranger who was upset.


canolafly

I made a major faux pas years ago. Trying to start a conversation with a girl I met, and said "oh hey, you're X's girlfriend.". She's kind of a well known DJ. She walked out. I didn't think about it from the snooty side for years. Edit: I guess I needed to add that this was in a bar bathroom.


PurpleMarmite

Who, X or the girl was the dj? And you probably need a little reminder: You probably didn't do anything wrong and some women just don't *like* other women.


canolafly

The girl was the DJ. Probably should have gone with dj skills, not X's girlfriend. I just knew him, thought it was a right way to start. I'm not very good at it.


AcrylicJester

The girl was the DJ. Most people don't like solely being referred to as "significant other of person".


PurpleMarmite

I've met loads of people by being introduced as "Brian's girlfriend/partner/fiancee". I'm so much more than that, i havr a life too, but if that is what establishes the connection then that is good enough for me.


Warm_Ad_7572

I think it might be one think to get to Beyoncé and say "oh! You're Jay-Z's wife!!" But if you don't actually know the person you are talking to or if your connection to them is their partner I really don't see a problem


CheeCheeReen

Hell yeah I am always that drunk bathroom girl!! I fucking love helping strangers in the bathroom.


PurpleMarmite

Whoo hoooo! We are legion. And we have tissues and spare mascara!


theycallmethevault

And tampons & pads & a clean pair of socks are always in my bag.


ICanDoThisAllDaylelz

I remember getting soooo drunk and stoned that I stood talking to everyone in the girls' bathroom. Hours flew by and amazing stories were told. Also I'm a man.


PurpleMarmite

You can be a man and be a drunk bathroom girl, of course you can! One of us... one of us...


srirachagoodness

I don't think guys will ever understand how wonderful the sisterhood of drunk women in bar bathrooms is. It is truly lovely and one of my favorite things about being a girl. If you are ever feeling down, let a random woman in the bathroom set you straight. ❤️


m0l0_l0l0

Is there a drunk girls in bathrooms sub? Because those moments are the purest most wholesome moments in the universe, sometimes with added hilarity. And I just need that right now because I'm going thru it.


star_nerdy

I bet her best friend is a girl who has too many juice boxes and passes out on the floor lol


ZXCVBETA

best visual ever


CornjobWillBeBlamed

*"This guy here, this is the guy."*


fuckit_sowhat

She's gonna be such a good friend! Hyping up her friends and supporting them in whatever they choose to do.


Dovahqueen_

It seems like she's already a good friend.


Coffee_exe

Wish I had friends like this bruh


Batchet

You want friends like that, you go get friends like that. You can do anything you want.


Komfortable

Gassing up her friends while holding back their hair. These type of women make the whole world better.


ANGELIVXXX

Yes. We all need support. “Out of the mouths of babes”. Indeed.


QueasyEducation5

Lol!! Sure does!


Many_Influence_648

Sounds like a cheerleader with full of life


Shaneaux

Came here to say this. She’s all of our best friend in the bathroom, wrapped into one small little girl.


LeahDragon

I don’t even go to bars all that often (I’m 24 and I’ve been out maybe 5 times in my life lmao and I don’t ever get drunk) but every single time I’ve had girls gassing me up in the bathroom and it’s honestly adorable 😂


_sonidero_

Hey guys I'm going to thr Bar tonight and then Outer Space tomorrow and when I get back I'll start my Dream Job on Monday...


rSlashisthenewPewdes

IF YOU WANNA GO TO THE BAR, YOU GO TO THE BAR!


ScreamingDizzBuster

She's even slurring her words.


SnooCookies5854

As a trucker, I too help strangers in the bathroom.


Byizo

Wha-ever yoo doooo….. dew it!


CallTheOptimist

You! You you you. Can. You can gooooo. If you want to go to space. Go to space. You can go.


p00p_knife

I am also 23 with a wacky 9 year old sister. I'm going to go visit her now after seeing this video... She once stayed up with me until 1am while I beat super Mario bros on switch from start to finish. She wet a washcloth and wiped my brow (she insisted) and woke everyone up with cheers when I beat giant Bowser. What can seem like a sad lonley night of doing nothing is made so so much more memorable and significant with the right people, *especially* kids. We celebrated with *secret* mozerella sticks and talked about everything from the speed of light to 20 sided dice until she fell asleep on the couch


Kiwiteepee

oh dear lord thats adorable


qcon99

That’s really sweet, and now you both have an amazing memory together :) Also, nice username lmao


precocial

The parents are like "we got it right this time."


squash_n_turnip

Your comment made me laugh but damn, it really fucking hit home.


MisterFlank

# reflection


AtomicKittenz

“You think **I’m** their favorite?!”


ZannX

Everyone knows you gotta reroll after messing up your first character.


E1lySym

I was confused asf because I was frequenting the Genshin Impact subreddit just now and then saw this comment and thought your comment on that sub glitched and appeared on this other sub.


Kriegmannn

Hell you could see the sister wants to start crying and knows what her sisters going to say already, I’d say she sees her healthy relationship with her sister is paying off :)


wondrwrk_

JUST. DO IT.


MirrorTasty777

But sire our troops


nova_mjohnson

I understood that reference.


Coeh

RAIN FIRE!


averagedKnight

Haha brilliant connection


cirinalynn

DON'T LET YOUR DREAMS BE DREAMS.


MarvelousMan3003

Yesterday, you said tomorrow. SO JUST DO IT


h1c253

Damn, that would make feel like I could run through a wall after a pep talk like that


way2cool4school

If YOU want to run through a wall, then do it! Okay?


ItsFrenzius

That kid could be a life coach, or maybe a therapist


Skevan2

When she was born she welcomed you in family


1istheloniestnumber

Damn, that made me miss my late baby sister.


remyjuke

I am so sorry for your loss. Makes me want to hug mine that's in another state


RapidKrisys

She’s not dead she just was supposed to be here at 11 and it’s past noon now.


41matt41

You're a dick. And so am I for laughing.


cocoabeach

I laughed and now I feel horrible.


Dickincheeks

I hope you and yours find peace and healing. My condolences. God bless you and your family.


AppropriateTime261

Happy cake day


vaccinated_corkscrew

I pray she's in a happy, peaceful place, away from all the negativity of this world, watching over you and your family, always there for you all ❤️


Prestigious-Tell-228

Her nine year old self talking to her 23 year old self, split images they look just alike.


iapetus_z

I always tell my 15 yr old don't make decisions that 23 yr old you is going to have to deal with. This would be that in real life.


FluffyDiscipline

"I just wanna go to the bar, have a few drinks, not get too spaced, might write that letter to land my dream job... but hey what's the point" Enter Sis


Living_Ad9798

I'm thinking big sis wants to go drown out her work troubles at the club, little sis wants to be an astronaut.


kevnrd22

I do that for my brother. He’s 37 and I’m 27.


AtopMountEmotion

“Now make me some cookies.”


JohnyMaybach

I go outta space tonight.


wontoan87

I need that pep talk every day pls


Puzzleheaded-Hat-168

Wow… now I realize being an only child freaking SUCKED


jesseberdinka

It's not all motivational speaches. Most of it is hitting your brother in the head with a mailbox or locking your sister in a trunk and trying to fill it with water because you saw a movie about Houdini.


RollingGirl_

Dude what did you do?


PseudoY

Secured their inheritance.


njb3

Got that bag bruh


Puzzleheaded-Hat-168

😂 sign me up still


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plamge

My brother once threw a whole rock at my head à la Cain and Able. Later I pushed him off the top bunk bed and he broke his arm. We would often take turns crushing each other under a mattress for fun.


Ochinchin6969111

i have a good sister but a toxic af brother so it really depends on how good the sibling is


oles_lackey

I’m the youngest of seven. Three are 12-18 yrs older. Three of us are only a few months apart (adoption). We’ve always felt bad for only kids. I mean who do you pester when you’re bored? Who can you have knock down drag out fights with and 30 minutes later help each other to put together the perfect outfit? Who do you frame for the missing batch of frozen homemade cookies mom hid in the freezer? Even as adults we fluctuate between supporting one another and being total assholes to each other. It’s glorious.


ronanlite

Oldest of 9 and siblings really are everything. I’ve been there several times with those cookies


Apocketfulofwhimsy

I'm the youngest of 4. I get along superficially with the oldest, happened when I hit like 20 (her 30). My brothers, though? It's extremely toxic. They had each other, and being picked on by both of them was craptastic. They were mean to me most of the time, ate all the food, stole, got my bikes stolen because it's a shitty city and you have to lock up everything or it's gone in 5, 4, 3, 2... whoosh. We never got along. I genuinely *hated* them for ages. Now I live states away, so it's more not giving a shit that they exist and fielding the one's calls where he begs for stuff because he can never get his shit together. Neither can the other one, but he doesn't ask for anything. Having siblings can be good when it works out - my SO is extremely close to his brother. But when it sucks, it super-duper fucking sucks.


Nordenfang

It’s a lottery similar to being born to good parents. Maybe it’ll be great and healthy but it can also suck and leave lasting negative effects on you growing up. Edit: referring to having siblings


Notakas

I have a younger sister and she's cool but it's nothing like this


notagirlonreddit

but dude we only-child's have this awesome leg up when it comes to enjoying our own company, which is something everyone's gonna have to learn to do eventually.


sammiefh

Well my older brother hates me and hasn’t talked to for a year


sarahch15

As someone with 3 incredibly shitty siblings, it's all luck of the draw. Don't feel too left out.


PixelPlanets608

Only child speaking here! I think it depends on the quality of your siblings, like other replies have already mentioned. Honestly, I think being an only child has helped me learn to entertain myself + keep myself in check. Plus we don’t have to put up with the burden of something like “why can’t you be more like your sibling?”. I mean, sometimes my mom still compares me to my friends, but I imagine that having a sibling would make it 10x worse. Plus, I know some siblings who absolutely HATE each other. They probably wouldn’t ever keep in contact if they didn’t share the same blood. Then again, I’m pretty introverted and my house is where I recharge, so the idea of coming home and still having to share oxygen with someone (who could potentially be annoying or mean) sounds exhausting. Maybe it’s different for you! But I think there’s still value and joy to be found in being an only child.


cheapdrinks

[Wait until the inheritance kicks in](https://i.imgur.com/WLcLP2l.png)


mznh

I don’t have a little sister but does she have some more wisdom for me


0pleasenothanks0

My sappy a$$ would be tearing up at that hehe


JeffBezosWhatAMan

Made me tear up. That’s a good kid.


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NotObamasClone

My thoughts too. Its awesome and all but no I don’t get to go to outer space. I do hope she gets to though.


ElbowStrike

I was going to say this. She just doesn't *know* yet. She doesn't *know*. 😣


notsowitte

You go out there, AND FIND THAT FUCKING DOG!!!!


electrical_kitten

they clearly showed her a motivational video in assembly that morning


newspapey

Alright! To the bar!


Morgentau7

Looks like Shia LaBeouf died and was reincarnated as a little girl


Morgentau7

JUST DO IT


gb4efgw

What if she just wants personal space? I kid, that little girl is adorable and sweet!


AsmoDark

That kid needs to become a life-coach!


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Oh… to be naive again.


BradsFace

Seriously, your 9yo sister just hyped me up with that speech.


Accurate-View-2114

The dog’s all pumped up as well


Emoney005

“Everybody has a plan until they get punched in the face” - Mike Tyson


wounderbra

I love that she has obviously had this drilled into her, and is sharing the wisdom!


eternal_outcast

I need a little sister like that lol


GolDjoel1987

This is truly beautiful! I hope that little girl gets all the great things in life.


notsonice333

😂😂😂I want to go to a bar in outer space to be a bartender.


Iwannabethatspamguy

Wholesome as heck


hannahneedle

Man, I wish my little brother was just as motivating. All he wants is to play Scribblenauts on my switch, whether or not i know


jdlyga

9 year old girls are the smartest people on the planet.


xertoy

I love her. She is a tiny mom. It doesn't matter what advice she is giving, she can sell it.


JakeBuseySpaceMovie

That’s amazing. My brother is also 14 years older than I am. I feel like this is our relationship.


Sweet-Alabama

This is so sweet i have diabetes