Daily Community Chat Megathread
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So my CFB and NFL teams both lost this weekend. I want to get blackout drunk now.
Join the club. My Bills choked
Yet, Rutgers pulled out a win against Syracuse. Who knew my alma mater had it in them?
I hate Pittsburgh!
Rutgers does have a promising future under Greg Shiano. Even though Syracuse is a joke, a win is a win.
OSU died so the browns could die harder.
No, no, no! Stop it! I’m supposed to say the Browns suck and say at least we have OSU.
What brand of underwear have the most solid band for not folding?
Just go commando. And wear grey sweatpants
Are the grey sweatpants really a thing? Do women check out the bulge?
I might have to change my gym outfit LMAO!
> Are the grey sweatpants really a thing? Do women check out the bulge?
Yes and yes
It’s a joke, but they can be attractive. I think Jon Hamm rocked the Hammaconda in them back in the day
I have a fear of my dick getting caught in the zipper
I only wear under armour boxer briefs
Listen bro,thank God Im not born in a Western country,I dont know how you boys cope but I would've lost my mind if any of this shit I see on Reddit/social media is true
Yes South African women are Westernized(hypergamy,feminism,misandry etc..)but they are not half as bad as the overseas ones.A very average guy has no issues dating/getting a girlfriend ,but that garbage American culture is slowly spreading everywhere through the tentacles of globalization & internet
That list is insane
If that's what it takes to be high value I don't think I want to be high value. Like what is the incentive, what is he getting in return for all that??
Tbf I would do some of those things for my doggo
Funny, I see nothing in there about how she plans to reciprocate for all of this kindness ...
To borrow from JFK, "Ask not what your partner can do for you, but what you can do for your partner."
This list just became my example as to why I don’t agree with FDS
> an already married man would do for his wife.
Why did you write a simp twice
What do they think jobs are like that dudes can just take off days at a time with no warning? This list is insane for many reasons, that being a big one
These women want their partners to be substitutes for their absent fathers.
Who the fuck takes a day off to take care of *another adult* because they’re sick? Who redoes the entire yard of a house they don’t even own? Who would pay for a bunch of expensive shit when they’re not even married to the person?
Literally these are all things I expect of MY PARENTS and some of my husband, but certainly not a guy I’m just dating.
If at all a married couple. But it's FDS so the list is useless by default. Scum who thinks that their mere presence with a smile here and there is more than enough doesn't have any right on judging what is high value or bare minimum and even less for demanding anything above "bare minimum" at all.
The theme here is "HE PAYS FOR IT"
stay classy FDS
I can’t believe they’re expecting him to pay for her parents house flooding. Don’t the parents have flood insurance?!
even worse they want him to wade through the sewage in their parents house and drain it out himself 🤮
The entire thing is just bizarre
that was oddly specific example too, weirder still it came first
The whole list was weird. I don’t like flowers, but you know what everyone likes? Shitty gas station candy
He doesn’t have to spend a shit ton for it to be sweet. Enjoy your damn Reese’s, like a normal human
> They are his property and his responsibility.
Men who say this never then ask themselves why women are so salty nowadays.
If their boyfriend says something they don't like, they have 5 other men waiting.
So why are women so salty? No shortage of simps who will lick the dirt off their feet. Maybe they should stop going for guys who can afford to be misogynistic.
Because the men who aren't misogynistic are seen as unmasculine pussies by women? But in any case this tradcon nonsense is maddening and tiresome and played tf out. This situation is bad enough without men feeding all this rocket fuel to the fire.
Don’t have to go after or continue going after misogynistic men to still get salty over it. Men get salty on here about a lot of things lol. Everyone gets annoyed and salty about shit lmao
Sounds like you're salty about other people being salty 😜
I’m the whole damn salt shaker lmaoo
Lyrics to a song:
I don't want you in white
I don't dream of you on the altar
I want you beautiful, crazy and free
Side by side, while it makes some sense for us to be
Side by side, face to face
Two links in a chain
That chance little by little chains and unchains
And even though there is the fear that I lose you from my sight, as much as this is possible,
I don't want this beautiful link to become handcuffs
What do y'all think about the philosophy of the singer?
"how to make her 'forever girlfriend' for dummies"
what? that's the exact opposite of what he's saying. Are you saying this philosophy will make her want to be with him forever?
I'm saying he's trying to avoid commitment by making the alternative sound better
i guess, but what does that have to do with "how to get a forever girlfriend for dummies"
ok forever girlfriend is when a man continuously dates a woman without ever offering to marry her.
The lyrics is a guide to how to make her be ok with being a forever girlfriend. That is, by making it sound good. Hence "for dummies" part as a reference to a [famous series of books](https://bookriot.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/image-of-books-in-for-dummies-series-1280x720.jpg).
I strangely enjoy explaining my jokes, even though half the time I don't even understand what the fuck I'm talking about.
OH sorry i didn't understand the term "forever girlfriend" was a reference to never wife-ing. I thought you just meant commiting to a woman forever. My b
Got a date set up with another girl for thursday evening! She seems realyl cool. I wish i wasn't moving because I'd consider LTR. She's not as attractive as I'd like, maybe slightly above average rather than very good looking, but otherwise everything is perfect. She has a masters, is easy to talk to, liberal but not sjw status, good family, etc.
At very least I'm hoping to get laid again LMAO but i really look forward to the actual time I'm going to spend with her.
If you don’t find her attractive enough to your tastes you shouldn’t pursue anyway
Men arent women
Why not? She's not ugly, and i like people. I'm very extro. Id call her a 6 or 6.5
Why the need to call it out if it wasn’t relevant to you though
Because this is a gender and dating subreddit and physical attractiveness level is highly relevant to dating someone? Lmao
It is relevant to me. And obviously it's not enough a negative to not see her or hookup with her. She has a fit body and large tits, never seen her ass, but her face is mediocre. So.... There you go.
Bro all you got to say is because you said so. You don't owe nobody an reason.
Ah its a debate sub and i have 2nd %tile agreeableness. I don't owe anyone anything... But ill still argue with em ;)
Two days... Excited to finally fuck a latina lol
Third date with trad girl tonight. Date 2 was a bust so this is the last one unless it goes very well.
Wait, why was it a bust?
multiple reasons but for me the biggest one is that she seemed more cold/distant, less touching and kissing. this date was better but still not good. Not sure what to do but tbh I'm leaning toward just ending it.
Honestly, what are you expecting? She’s a tradcon. She’s going to be chaste
I’m a little confused about how you’re expecting sexual energy from a tradcon
yeah but we didnt even hold hands this date, barely peck on the lips at the end, like bro come on. im cool with waiting till marriage but thats stupid. I only spent 5 dollars over 3 dates so I dont care but its stupid
it just gives off the you are a beta buxx vibe
That’s a tradcon girl. I’m not being snarky or anything, this is literally how they date - their future husband wouldn’t appreciate her holding hands or giving a peck to another guy
Edit - actually? They don’t date. They expect to be courted, which is a whole other thing that I don’t really understand
true. I think ill just go back to being single and listening to 808s
No, I think this is good - this is an opportunity to examine whether you really want a tradcon, or if you want an intentionally low N conservative girl who can still be comfortable enough to express physical affection
Now that you have the information to make that decision, it will be easier for you to figure out who your target audience is
And you being you, both groups will be open to dating you
I thought the second group was the first though, that's why I'm confused
The first group is similar to fundies
The second group is more like normies
Tell me you’re a closeted lesbian in love with your best friend without actually telling me you’re a closeted lesbian in love with your best friend
Why is it that guys never post such drivel.
We do, but we’re more succinct.
“I fuckin hate my tall ass chaddy roommate. Does he *have* to lay a new chick every night?”
Stuff like that.
I mean, so are boys. That's just life.
This isn't an issue with upbringing, some people are just naturally more neurotic and shitty, and let their envy control them. It's on them to grow up.
I never heard boys ending friendships because one of them is better at getting girls or sports or video games... or anything else that matters to men.
Because women are raised with a we're all equal mindset, while boys are raised with the mindset that there and winners and losers in life, that's why women lean socialist and men lean capitalist
Coming to a theater near you.
I could go for a good haunting right about now.
Sometimes you're just the ugly friend and have to get over it. I spent a lot of time as the ugly friend, never took it out on my gorgeous best friend though
Damn. She officially 'broke up' with her friend.
I had a friend do that to me. Instead of going the route where when one person moves away, changes their whole lifestyle and they have less and less in common, she went out of her way to say it was better if we didn't stay friends.
Like damn. Let me pretend we 'lost touch' instead of this bullshit where I feel like I wouldn't even be able to invite her to my wedding.
really? I dealt better long term with the friendships that ended with a direct "breakup" than the ones who just slow faded. I got better closure in a way.
Back when I was a kid, I invented a fake organization for shits and giggles among my peer group called "Future Sluts Of America" to refer to other young teenage girls that were around at the time. I was about 15 so I could do that.
Sad to see that the organization has unofficially grown exponentially since those days.
Do you wish they were all still chaste so you could have your pick of the litter?
Nope. I wish they were all chaste because it would be better all around for everyone involved. Now women have to lie, shame guys who care or hope that the conversation never comes up to find a relatively decent relationship.
Boringly enough, I had no side effects from 2nd vaccine dose. 🥲
I was so ready with the chicken soup and Tylenol.
So you didn't turn into a fire-breathing mutant ?
Man, I got hoodwinked!
My 2nd was fine, 1st I was mostly just tired
I got the J&J and it’s only one shot but it hit me like a brick.
I was completely out of commission for a good 8-9 hours.
>I had no side effects from 2nd vaccine dose
Long-term side effects have yet to be discovered so just keep that chicken soup in the microwave for the next few years.
I'll retire on the settlement money 💰
Unfortunately the companies that created and are providing the vaccines are not liable for any adverse effects that may result, so no signs of a future settlement there.
Then financial social assistance it is. ;) besides, we also have a government agency for patient injury compensation.
Yup. Hope you gots insurance that covers that sort of thing.
Edit: You might be ineligible for compensation for injuries from treatment that you signed a consent waiver for.
My dad has life insurance on all his daughters. If we're disabled due to work accidents or such, we'll be taken care of.
I think you mean he'll be taken care of :D
We get the money if we're disabled, he gets the money if we die.
And no, we didn't sign consent waivers for the vaccine.
Kinda like a 'dead peasant' policy on your kids!
I like it.
If he took out the insurance policy, then it sounds like he'll be getting the money either way. Whether he wants to give it to you or go on vacation to the Caribbean for a few weeks is the question.
Oh god, I was crying from pain with mine. It took me 3 days to shake fully
Oh no 😨 on the other hand, my partner was down with fever for three days. 😭
The bills clearly want me to have alcohol poisoning. JFC this is ugly
Bills suck. Pay back for OSU.
Today, they did. Josh Allen was playing like it was 2019
I hate when you’re right 😢
What is your side hustle, if you have one?
Putting up real estate signs. I made $200+ yesterday in about 6 hours. (Would have taken less time but we stopped for ice cream and to poke around a thrift shop, lol.)
Don’t need one
I'd sooner set myself on fire than have a side-hustle. I options trade, but I'd hardly call it a side-hustle since I commit a lot of time to it and basically do it concurrently with my actual job.
Whats your current job?
Technical consultant, lol. My workload is extremely variable which is kinda nice.
I’m a notary public.
Amy Santiago from Brooklyn Nine None??
I haven’t seen it. They advertised the class at work and offered to pay for everything, so I did it. It brings in a little extra dough, but I haven’t really put the effort into making it a real business venture.
Drawing furry characters on commission.
i sell propane accessories
How much for the butthole?
Custom picture, video, meetup?
I’ll give mine up for free, if you do the same. Deal?
Pet-sitting. No better side-gig for introverts who like animals.
teaching pole dance classes
Little over 3 now
babysitting. especially for my parents' coworkers, they pay really really well and i have a blast the entire time
Do you think the general relationship between sexes is getting better or worse as time progresses?
Also please state your pill/ideology if you have one
We arent suppose to know this much about the opposite sex's imperative. The fact that guys are delusional and tend naturally towards blue pill is an evolutionary feature.
What benefit is there now lmao welcome to modernity
Why would that be evolutionary? Guys benefit from knowing how female sexuality works
But how does it benefit women for men to know women's weaknesses and ways to exploit it? Especially if male sexual imperative is in direct opposition to female sexual imperative. When i said it was an evolutionary feature i meant for both sexes. It's checks and balances.
It doesn't need to benefit women, just men. Men try to decode female sexuality and women develop their own defenses. It's an arms race
I like this take! Cursed with knowledge as Thanos would put it
Women are getting worse and worse as they participate more in casual sex and hypergamy and ruin themselves and their pair bonding ability
Aren’t men also participating in this causal sex stuff? Can’t just blame women
Nope its all girl-on-girl, no men do the bad casual sex thing. Nuh uh, not once ;)
>Can’t just blame women
Excuse me, but are you new to PPD?
That explains your question.
Worse. I think singlehood and plummeting birthrate will be the norm. I'm a bit of both.
worse. That's what happens when you have two parties with authority rather than one with authority and one submissive. Worse but better than the alternative of women shutting up and doing as told.
worse for the next few decades, better after that. black pill
How will it get better?
things are cyclical
With no government intervention (not likely) or without the fall of the west (even less likely) what incentive would people have to change? Feel it would just keep spiraling downward
Do you mean men making more money? Once a girl is 18 she can out earn most men if she’s attractive enough.
once the sex/fertility problem is bad enough there will be economic incentives to correct it. Already happening in aging populations like Japan. Those who don't reproduce are destined to die and their ways with them
there are already quotas in favor of men in college admissions for example.
Sometimes people post things on here that are so stupid I question my grasp on rational thinking. It’s so farfetched that I question life itself. Am I a fool masquerading as in intellectual, unable to grasp simple concepts, or is what the person said so fucking stupid it should have never been thought, let alone typed up and sent. But as much as I hate it, I love it here. I wouldn’t trade it for a thing.
I'd take a million dollars or a hot girl instead
How much is either in camels?
average price for a camel is $10k so about 100 camels.
That's a lot of camels, I know what I'd take
I’ve had plenty of hot girls. Take the million dollars. A hot girl with maybe $300 max
Can’t provide an example cause it would be targeting, but it’s not one specific thing. It’s a daily occurrence
Just give the gist without naming names.
that’s not against the rules.
Combination of the self-defeating attitude that a lot of the men here have as well as the shitty dating advice girls here give
hard to not be self defeatist when you have literally maxed out your entire life and still have no luck
How have you maxed out your life?
good shape, good job (100K out of school), no debt
Do you talk to people though? What’s your social life like?
yeah I have some friends, mostly male though. I hang out with them sometimes. I also use OLD and go to church off again on again kind of. Don't meet women very often though. not sure what else I can do. I work 12 hour days. The only other way I can improve myself is surgery which I might do eventually.
In all fairness, men give absolutely horrible dating advice to the girls here every day. It’s literally “how to be one of his many sluts” or “how to never interact with another man, ever, just in case you ever meet some guy you don’t know exists”
We’re not dating as the opposite gender, and our advice can only go so far
Lol. Aren’t all women saving themselves to be a part of a future alpha males harem?
That does sound like bad advice but are you sure you’re not hyperbolizing?
That’s bad advice. And it’s advice handed out here daily
Can you show me an example please?
I mean, any of the N count convos. Or age
At the end of the day, finding someone at 18 who you can be happily married to through all of life’s changes is nothing more than luck
I’m not sure why it’s pushed so hard here
If you find it, hold on like hell. But most people don’t
What’s an example of shitty dating advice?
Confidence is a turn off
I can’t imagine why anyone would ever say this
Same! Even if personally true, still bad dating advice for overwhelming majority of individuals
I saw the comment and I personally think they are mistaking confidence for arrogance from the examples given
I can’t think of a single situation in life where being confident is not an advantage. Not one.
Im struggling to grasp the rationale of thinking confidence is a turn off.
I love unmasculine men, like this guy: https://i.imgur.com/Fsbtcwj.jpg
Edit: this is AI-generated btw, so you aren't a pedo if admit he's handsome lol
Reminds me of this image: [https://www.linfxk.com/zb\_users/upload/2021/01/202101231611410947802443.jpg](https://www.linfxk.com/zb_users/upload/2021/01/202101231611410947802443.jpg)
It's basically a 'hyper realism' portrayal, where young and old features are mixed (ie. his eyes are oversized).
That's supposed to be a dude?!
No, it was just a similar style, hyper realism with neotenous features.
Not for me. Looks too childlike.
Was it from thispersondoesnotexist.com or was it a different ai?
There is a website on which you can upload a face, and then change literally everything about it with an AI: artbreeder.com
Here are some pics with a few details changed, but you can still detect the similarity: https://imgur.com/fT8xyHV.png
It's the pointy chin that I dont like I think
oh yeah I've heard of art breeder before
Hollow cheeks, sharp jawline, hunter eyes, full lips. Fuck i've been on r/truerateme too long
looks like a 12 year old anime boy wtf
Since the dude in the skirt link, I've stopped trusting PPD links.
Yeah I saw that lmao. "Just become more feminine"
Aren’t you a guy?
I am, and I'd love to be attracted to men, but my dick just won't go up for them :( so I was just imitating the women on the recent thread
So you actually don’t find the weird elf woman with a masculine jaw attractive?
Sorry, what are you refering to?
The pic you linked of the androgynous elf woman cartoon
Ah yes, *that* elf woman. No, I don't feel any sexual arousal about it to be honest.
I’d say he’s handsome but I also realize the artist made him with as little flaws as possible lol he just has a more boyish face. I think boyish faces can be attractive, all depends on the individual face lol
No bullshit he looks like one of my son’s friends.
He actually looks like me (just more handsome though, of course. But my features definitely go in his direction)