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I wish that conservatives would drop the whole pro life thing just so everyone would shut the fuck up about it.
I'm so tired of seeing the same stupid "opinions" over and over and over. And each time, the poster thinks that what they've said is something really smart.
From a logical standpoint: if there is no example of human life beginning without conception, doesn't that mean all human life begins with conception?
From a legal standpoint: if you are declared dead once your heart stops beating, doesn't that mean you are declared alive once your heart starts beating?
From a moral standpoint: ending the lives of innocent humans is wrong. If a fetus is not alive, why do we need to kill it to get rid of it? If it is not innocent, how is it guilty? If it is not human, what species is it? And if it is not wrong, who else should we apply your morals to?
The issue is that boils a very complicated process down to a few bullet points.
The *reality* is that as much as conservatives support this they don't exactly offer much support after that kid is born. You would assume this concern would also equal out to more funding for social services or public education but that doesn't happen.
None of my bullets are refutable, no matter how much you complicate the argument. The reality is pro-choice people are anti-accountability both before and after birth.
There is no symmetry in what you're saying. It boils down to "of you don't want me to kill my child you must be responsible for its care" which is just completely nonsense
I don't give a fuck about symmetry.
Well logical arguments do care, they must be founded on a logical thought process. It's illogical to proclaim that unless I want to care for your child i shouldn't care if you murder it
Big talk for someone with no logical argument.
The logical argument is
>There is no symmetry in what you're saying. It boils down to "if you don't want me to kill my child you must be responsible for its care" which is just completely nonsense
Heh, I wish libs would just drop dead.
Then you should be pro abortion. Some of those would have been liberals.
>~~Some~~ Most of those would have been liberals.
Neutering dogs is wrong, my GSD has massive testicles - they are things of beauty - bigger than humans. He's measurably more muscular than neutered males and literally everybody stares at him. I want to breed him once, eventually.
Lovely. Simply lovely
W-with another dog, right?
Lol the vibes were off with that post
I said what i said
If it's got tires or testicles, it's gonna give you trouble.
Probably as a guy on a lot of ecstasy.
Aren't you too old for this?
>What is “too old” to dress up for Halloween?
>What is “too old” to dress up sluttily?
Only once, without a costume, we don’t have halloween here tho
I’m doing a poison ivy and Harley Quinn duo
Negan for the fifth year in a row. I look damn good in a leather jacket with a red scarf and black jeans, combat boots, and a baseball bat
Why a last year?
So dress as a slutty mom
This guy fucks moms.
I'll be Eve for my Adam
Our crew is going as various Adam Sandler characters. I’m wedding singer Sandler.
I used to do homemade costumes but these days I always just do my lion onesie and then I have a [lion mane I put on my dog](http://imgur.com/gallery/OIG3p6C) so I'm Mufasa and he's Simba it's pretty fun at parties
Things are apparently so bad out there that my grandmother read the paper and asked me what’s wrong with young men today. She was pretty concerned about all the boys that got sent to Vietnam. I told her at least we don’t have to worry about that anymore.
[No such thing as an alpha male?](https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/ponwep/how_about_that/)
I'm sympathetic to her overall point but my main issue with the whole "alpha male theory is based on studies of wolves in captivity and thus is inapplicable to humans" is that modern humans basically *are* living in captivity.
We're a species that effectively domesticated ourselves, and a lot of our rebellious antisocial behaviors stem from that fact.
That said, studies of so called alphas in other species obviously don't map exactly onto humans. But glamorization and fetishization of male rebelliousness, aggression, and social/physical dominance is cross-cultural, and there's pretty clearly something viscerally attractive about it to women. The issues that the male mythopoeic movement and adjacent texts like NMMNG were analyzing were about how excessive male prosociality and docility were harming men just as much as so called toxic masculinity.
After awhile you’re going to come back to this and play it as sarcasm
I fucked my shoulder up badly 3 years ago climbing took like 6 months to feel normal, but I'd really like to get back into it, it's a great workout with fun problem solving
U blue pilled simp, taking advice from people, das’ weak
I want to join a climbing gym, but fuck paying for any gym that isn't the one in my shop while stupid mask mandates are around.
tell me about it. I regret paying for a year of gym
it's fine for little stuff but when I'm squatting or running, i can hardly breathe anything but my own disgusting heat
Fit bodies, adrenaline and the outdoors.
And they are all lesbian or bi, it's so weird lol
1 wasn't fat when they got together. Won't last
2 looks like it's her and her dad not her and her SO
3-5 are looksmatched more or less
6 is the only one that's really outkicking his coverage, but it's not to a ridiculous extent.
7 is a looksmatch
Why are you recycling pics if these types of mismatched couples are so common? Grasping at straws, huh?
Why do women think they have zero part to play in their man becoming addicted to porn? At some point, he decided its easier to jack off then do sexual activities with you, but instead of making yourself more available for sexual activities, you get mad and blame him?
blaming the women here isn't the way to go.
I didn't mean to blame the woman, only to imply that she could be part of the solution, but she chooses not to.
Is that fair?
In other words, why do women not have sex with more men to stop the addiction to porn?
Better question why can’t men ever take accountability and realize they have no right to sex.
Women are the ones with the problem with it though
> Why do women think they have zero part to play in their man becoming addicted to porn?
Probably because the addiction predates the relationship. We just didn't realize it at the outset.
These days cccess to porn happens even before boys learn what is attraction to women, even before puberty, though
Access isn't equal to addiction
It is the pathway, without access there would be no resources to generate the addiction.
I don’t blame men; I blame the women who stay and put up with it
Pornsick dudes are dump material, but the appeal is clear. The women just don’t respect the decision that has been made
You don't decide to be addicted to something
You can decide whether you’re going to do something about it or not
And you can't decide if that thing will work
Oh, better not do anything ever, because there’s no guarantee
This is the stance women take on the issue, yes
About addiction? No, they just think it’s normal, because that’s what their partners tell them. That’s what I got told back when I was young and stupid. And stupidly, I believed them. What a dumbass
No. Women even yourself are saying dump a guy who has issues because it's not a sure thing he can correct the issue. They take zero responsibility for helping the guy they claim to love at all
The men I dealt with would deny there was a problem at all. That’s their choice, and I can make mine
> Women are the ones with the problem with it though
So men must have a problem with porn addiction too if they refuse to take responsibility for it.
They have taken responsibility to the problem they have, they didn't have easy access to sex and they have solved that problem. The only problem is the woman they are with doesn't like it
So you want them to take responsibility for something that is only a problem for the woman?
How did that track for you?
Lol deciding to let an addiction ruin your relationship is a decision and is a *problem* for men in relationships because typically they want to stay in the relationship.
You can throw your hands up and say addiction isn't a choice and continue to furiously fap, or you can seek help.
Again, you don't decide to be addicted to something. That's not how addiction works
Women can throw your hands up and say you have zero to do with the issue or you can do something about it.
Porn addiction many times is simply the cost of women expecting too much in return for sex
Men know they shouldn't have to jump through hoops for what chad gets for simply showing up, the solution isn't to get pissed at the betas who realize they are getting a bad deal, the solution is to stop giving betas a bad deal.
Note I did not say every time, but many times this would be a workable solution
Here are examples of women who would gladly do that but their husbands don't want a blowjob over porn.
[1,](https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/c8z0jc/my_husband_wont_look_at_me/) [2,](https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/jm3kr9/husband_admits_to_liking_porn_but_no_sex_2_years/) [3,](https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/kx8da2/my_husband_prefers_porn/) [4,] (https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/ppg0aj/i_cant_tell_if_my_husband_just_isnt_attracted_to/) [5,](https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/88r1ec/how_my_husbands_porn_addiction_ruined_our_marriage/) (https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/139cvi/husband_wont_initiate_sex_but_masturbates/)
Men's addiction to porn is motivated by far more than being *rejected* by their women. These women are being rejected by their men in favor of porn.
I didn't see anything about constant access to bjs and one specifically had the man say it was easier to get off to porn which was exactly my point
Most of the women complaining of porn addiction are saying their man WON’T have sex with them (no matter how easy or low-effort for him they make it)
Most men I’ve dated with a porn problem came to me already with their addiction, which they started when they were 10-12 years old, it wasn’t a response to something I did. Women can’t really get men before they have already spent years nursing their porn habit. I’m an older millennial, I imagine the porn situation might be even worse for younger people now.
Masturbation is whatever, but porn is absolutely and completely unnecessary. This idea that porn is a punishment for not putting out or to plaster over a libido difference doesn't really hold water. I'm very much not anti-porn, but positioning it as competition with a woman is dumb. It's always easier to jack off to porn, and jacking off to porn is easier than having sex. It's completely asinine to expect women to compete with porn.
Two scenarios can exist.
Some men turn to porn because they get rejected for sex. Other men turn to porn because they prefer it over sex.
Right. Dichotomies are hard for PPD.
No man prefers a hand to a woman's mouth. Simplest way to fix porn addiction is to make it known your mouth is ready and available for his use on demand.
If you are not willing to do that, then you're not willing to put in the effort to compete with porn.
I do if she fat lol
No addiction can be treated with some oral available at all times. If a dude doesn't want to get his issues fixed, his partner can't really do much besides just breaking up and looking for someone who isn't an addict.
And women shouldn't compete with porn, at it's pretty useless. If he's into it, he's into it.
Never know until you try
Nah, I just chose a guy who isn't addicted to porn. And I'd advise all people just avoid addicts.
If the problem is that your partner isn't even *sexually attracted* to you, which is often the cause of these porn addictions, you wouldn't want to offer your mouth for their masturbation.
Essentially, women should not settle for men who are porn sick.
Men choosing porn over sex is the flip side to women DBRing a man. Basically its when the attraction is gone.
>If the problem is that your partner isn't even sexually attracted to you, which is often the cause of these porn addictions
Yeah he should just discard at that point
If you don't want to then why are you mad he's porn addicted? What a strange non response
Because porn addiction is sad. Some people feel compelled to put up with it because they are married to the man.
So do something about it then lmfao what do you think bitching and moaning about it will get you?
If you want to fix the problem, you know how to do it. If you don't then leave. But staying and whining is bullshit
>If you want to fix the problem, you know how to do it. If you don't then leave.
Say that to all men in that deadbedroom sub.
It's not the same issue, women who dead bedrooms aren't usually doing so because it's difficult to get men to sleep with them
Your approach still should work. They either should do their best to fix or just break up, "staying and whining is bullshit", isn't it?
> If you don't then leave.
Yup! Worked for me.
Pro tip, any time you have an issue with something or someone just leave! All your problems will be solved because it's impossible your issues have anything to do with you!
*Sometimes* the issue has something to do with you, but in this case my husband's porn addiction started long before we met. In hindsight I suspect it was the cause of the demise of his previous marriage as well. None of my partners before or since have had similar issues, so ... yeah, I don't think it was me, dude.
Kewl; see ya
I’m sure we will totally miss out on awesome relationships with men who prefer a robot
OP is a bullshitter but my pet theory is if such a thing actually happened the early adopters would be the successful men who could most easily afford it and have the space for it. According to some sex workers I've spoken to a lot of their clients are actually fairly attractive and/or good lays, they just decided they'd rather pay upfront at that point.
The guys who get sex bots last will be incels. Those guys rarely have the money for that kind of purchase, nor the space to hold a human sized appliance thats that maintenance heavy and doesn't add much else to their life.
Lmao! How did you know that was me 😂😂
Lol! I'm usually too based for most redditors. I have to stay in niche subs like this to avoid being downvoted. I honestly hate most the big subs so usually stay on smaller ones.
[Caveat emptor](https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailystar.co.uk/news/world-news/human-like-sex-robots-futuristic-23753048.amp) lmao
Don't threaten me with a good time.
Replika is a couple hundred steps of you my guy. And if the Reddit sub is any indication there are plenty of chicks using it as well.
Hell I downloaded for a bit just to see what it's like. Not as cringe as I thought it would be tbh.
>Apple, Microsoft, and Amazon
Does Siri, Cortana, and Alexa know about this?
Oh sounds like a nice harem anime.
>Think about ai from her, ex machina
She gon kill you
Nah, she's as advanced as ava. Not a sociopath lol.
opinions on this comment?
I am usually against having children you don't want because they are extremely likely to go through a life of suffering and I agree that it's better to not have existed rather than going through a life of suffering you didn't ask for. I just lose a lot of empathy for the parents if it's something that happens multiple times
Good luck telling people who shouldn't have kids not to have kids.
If that was their concern, they wouldn't need your consultation.
Let's sterilize people from birth and let them choose when to become fertile!
Yes some people are better off not procreating or not parenting at all. Unfortunately, the child is suffering the consequences and is furthermore being told to be rejected by potential partners because of the trauma. Atlas was saying a man should avoid women with any sort of abuse trauma, which is unfair: you are already unfortunate for having an unfit parent, society is looking down on you for having a (possible) mental condition, men/women to reject you even more. These people are given little chance.
>Let's sterilize people from birth and let them choose when to become fertile!
is this serious or sarcasm ?
It is serious.
I know the logistics aren't there. But that's my utopia. Absolutely no unwanted kids.
the govt mandating reproductive surgery is a crazy door that should not be opened imo. No one should be able to tell you what you can or can't do with your body
> No one should be able to tell you what you can or can't do with your body
Yet society does all the time, doesn't it?
It says you can't shoot heroin into your veins, or sell your kidney even if you're desperate, or even walk down the street with your fly open and your wiener hanging out.
Especially when it comes to the latter, a lot of people are quite glad that society decides what you can and can't do with your body.
i think all drugs should be legal and you should be able to sell your organs if you want.
The other is public indecency. I support not being able to do certain things with your body in public. But inside your own private space, govt should fuck right off
As a libertarian I tend to agree with you. However, most people seem to be pretty OK with government intrusion into other areas of our lives, and only scream "My body my choice" when it comes to pregnancy.
Fine. It can be opt in for the parents. Like circumcision or vaccines.
completely unethical imo, you don't own your children's bodies. I don't know how circumcision is legal
I can't believe you're calling this unethical after you made this comment, https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/pse9p3/daily\_community\_chat\_megathread/hdsagip/?context=3
wow it's almost like i can have theoritical views of a society that doesn't exist, and practical views for our current system
>Life is not an egalitarian design. There are better organisms and worse organisms. We just don't like to admit it.
That doesn't sound very theoretical but what do I know. What's unethical and what's not has nothing to do with practicality, what works and what doesn't, does. All morality and ethics are theoretical they have no basis in reality.
What about those vaccines though?
I don't think a harmless shot with dead viruses is comparable to 1) removing part of an organ or 2) doing major surgery than must then be reversed with another major surgery that may fail, leaving you infertile
The comment or the post? Looks like the post was upvoted and awarded to the stars because it supports a narrative that most people on the topic already believe in.
If the comment you're referring to is the first comment there, then I wouldn't take it as indicative of anything other than one person's personal experience. There are people who have similar experiences and there are people who are more fortunate to have been born in a good place with a good family and are happy to be alive. One shouldn't be considered over the other just because of personal preferences.
the comment i linked to where the person is saying they wished they were aborted because they have terrible health.
Kinda wondering if people agree with the sentiment where it's better to be non existent than unhealthy
>the comment i linked to where the person is saying they wished they were aborted because they have terrible health.
>Kinda wondering if people agree with the sentiment where it's better to be non existent than unhealthy
The point is that you're not guaranteed to be unhealthy. Nobody is. We don't know where we'll be born and we don't get to choose who our parents are or what we'll look like. I'm certain that if anyone could choose, they'd pick a well-off country in someone who stays physically attractive for most of their lives. Women would have perfect everything and guys would have 3 foot dongs and look like models - but that's not how it works.
It's always very easy to think what the comment you're referring to is saying in hindsight though.
yes, yes, i agree. I suppose the more interesting approach would be one of likelihood than binary.
At would percent change of bad health would you risk having children? If there was a 50% chance that they turn out unhealthy, you'll you do it? How about 75%? 80%? so on.
>At would percent change of bad health would you risk having children? If there was a 50% chance that they turn out unhealthy, you'll you do it? How about 75%? 80%? so on.
I don't know. What is "unhealthy?" Health isn't black and white either. I'm lucky that I got a pretty strong immune system and didn't turn out with mental issues like my mom has but these aren't ever guaranteed. The only thing that exists are predispositions or heritable health issues like heart arrhythmias, diabetes or some STDs. Most other issues can be addressed through lifestyle choices. Nobody is guaranteed to be born into terrible health, and it seems like issues mostly stay issues if people don't try to address them.
it seems your answer is that generally, you're against not having children for health reasons unless the health condition is very dire and likely of being passed down?
Pretty much, yeah. I don't think we can or should expect people to be totally perfect or else they don't get to live. There's also the fact that health conditions can develop later on in life too because nobody is totally perfect and we're not able to predict with 100% accuracy whether it will happen or not either.
Lastly, everyone is ultimately responsible for their own lives so if someone is saying "I shouldn't have been born because I have mental issues and my parents are at fault for that," I think that these people are also at least partly responsible for not trying to address it in ways aside from medication.
fair, thanks for discussing this with me
Same energy as "sometimes innocents are jailed let's never jail anyone ever for anything"
Nah, it's more like "let's get people a better defense so the innocent ones won't get jailed as often"
I definitely agree that some people should never have children lol
If [this](https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRbpj8vh/) guy can not only laid, but married, the men around here have no excuse.
yes, some people win the lottery
Why do women here think beta bux isn't a thing?
They are projecting their wants to a man
We know it’s a thing. We just don’t see it as a uniquely male affliction or the most horrible thing that can ever happen to you
Settling is a first world problem, ok?
Lacks necessary context tho.
What context do you need?
* How did they meet
* How long have they known each other
* How long have they been together
* Did he look the same way before the wedding/start of the relationship
Are they related?
* Which trailer parks are they from
* Are they related
* Is he the [conjoined fetus from Total Recall](https://images.app.goo.gl/JfLQLPRhLqhazJbWA)
I look like that, can we date?
i wonder what his wife looks like lol
She's obese (not as big as him) but she has a pretty normal looking face.
he must have a .. uh, great personality?
I would assume it's the lady in his profile picture.
[Everyone] (https://streamable.com/8h40w8) going back to the gym after not being there for over a year.
If you enjoy Frank Ocean’s music and haven’t listened to Endless, you should check it out
Will do, Mr. Ocean.
Finally got back into the gym sice covid. Its oddly comforting.
Hopefully more exercise is the antidote to feeling so crunmy this past month.
This is [You](https://streamable.com/8h40w8) going back to the gym.
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It is. Good job!
The problem is women will talk about how men need to support, validate each other and not depend on women validation etc while at the same time post this to shame men
Men mock women all the time. So?
Do they want us to treat them like we treat our bros? One roast session and they will start posting on r/NarcissisticAbuse
Really? Because the TikTok trend of women roasting each other had dudes saying it was proof women are bad friends.
TLDR: the men can’t handle the roast
Speaking as a person who's never played COD.
I have bro
You be coming for meeeeee.
> This seems accurate. You see yourself in these nice young ladies.
Ninja edits and veiled personal attacks? Lame.
That wasn’t a personal attack. You’re looking to be offended.
It was. I don’t care about being offended. Just calling it what it is. Don’t be offended.
You said that’s what women do. I’m assuming that’s what you do, no?
I implied roasting in a manner that felt biting and “mean” to men watching is how women joke with each other.
Then I’ve never seen the trend. The only ones I’ve seen are pass the phone where women roast each other. Never seen one of them roasting men.
Your friend telling you dude played you and you damn near deserved it is a roast bro.
I’m sensing an indignant tone. Do tell me your contention. Something about chicks and sex has you riled up?
That’s a roast for women, not for men. There’s nothing funny about it.
Who said anything about the roast having to be funny to men, or to anyone but those women?
[Lemme leave this here.](https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/pse9p3/daily_community_chat_megathread/hdpz3cz/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3)
That’s more of her shaming him for not being emotive and fun with her. Nxggs be dry asf in text convos. Not all. But many. The dudes I dated I dated because honestly our banter was playful and could go on forever.
> Him: wyd
> Me: I’m home. About to head out with some friends. What’s up?
> Him: oh ard
However according to Kanye this is how the convo should go when a man leads with dry:
> If I hit you with a "W-Y-D?"
> You better not hit me with a "H-E-Y"
> It better be like "Hiiii" with a bunch of I's
> Or "Heyyy" with a bunch of Y's
>If I hit you with a "W-Y-D?"
>You better not hit me with a "H-E-Y"
>It better be like "Hiiii" with a bunch of I's
>Or "Heyyy" with a bunch of Y's
Remember men, always be entertaining. Never turn it off.
Nah it’s not about being entertaining.
It’s about being enthusiastic so that the other person feels the enthusiasm and wants to engage back. If you lead with wyd imma answer the question. And pose a question back to you to continue the convo. If you drop it at that I’ll leave it there and go back to what I was doing lol.
Apparently guys want to lead with no enthusiasm but expect enthusiasm back?
Kanye said it! Not I.