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I've never really wanted to be much taller than I am and after seeing that picture of the 8 foot tall guy I feel very comfortable being 5'10".
What do you guys think is the import women place on being funny?
I'm not funny, I'm just curious. Is the stereotype of fat chris pratt from parks and rec legit? Physically unattractive yet hilarious and thus women want him.
The girl I'm talking to called me funny and i know I'm not, I'm actually overly serious, but i wonder if she's justifying her attraction to me in other ways by saying that I'm funny.
Also there's a difference between clever and witty and funny. Which of these is most beneficial?
I once dated a class clown type who was always making jokes and at first it was hilarious. Then it got old and he never stopped being Jokey Smurf and I got tired of the immaturity and left. Humor is a good ice breaker but dude, dial it down.
It’s a social skill, draws attention, and is useful
Like any entertainment
>Is the stereotype of fat chris pratt from parks and rec legit? Physically unattractive yet hilarious and thus women want him.
I wouldn't call him funny personally. More like, goofy and dumb. It's only excusable because fat Chris Pratt is still attractive. If he was unattractive as well, I'd have no attraction to him at all.
>Also there's a difference between clever and witty and funny. Which of these is most beneficial?
I much more prefer clever and witty.
chris pratt isn't unattractive though, fat is never a good thing but dude always had good masculine ratios to begin with.
Funny is kind of reductor, women want assertive positive energy dudes who don't care. Humor is often a resultant of it. Women don't really like male humor, they like male energy.
>I'm not funny
It definitely can play a large role, I myself find women more attractive if they're funny.
Also know a guy who frankly is *ugly*, yet he's funny and knows how to talk to women so he does very well for himself.
I'm going to repost this when the next daily chat rolls around but I'm currently watching Edward Scissorhands for the first time and jeebus did this movie hit every single social trope that exists: the weird-looking awkward dude with a pure heart that doesn't fit in and is misunderstood, the attractive young girl with the douchebaggy bf who falls for the former guy, the cackling hens of the neighborhood who spread rumors and dissent and drag awkward dude through the mud (one even makes a false rape claim against him).
\-in old timey radio shtick voice-
*Bravo! Bravo, I say!*
Edward scissor dick 🤣
I have a 3yo son who is now fluent in Danish (as well as Khmer). We live in a small rural costal town of southern Cambodia. There are probably around 10-15 other people in the whole country that speaks Danish, and certainly no children. I doubt there was ever another native Danish speaking child living in the Cambodia jungle. Since the global corona hysteria - which took me completely by surprise - happened just as he entered his language formation years, this prevented any visits from his other (grown) siblings or other family & friends, and I have been the only person he has ever talked Danish with.
It just occurred to me that I did this. I singlehanded taught my son to speak a language.
Why are you living in a Cambodian jungle?
I like it here. There is the jungle, wild monkeys, beautiful birds & butterflies, iguanas, etc., clean air, ocean just 200m away. Good food, nice people.
Holiday in Cambodia.
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"Du er en bøsse" - lær at tale ordentligt din svensker.
Yes, close to there. Although we now actually moved to Phnom Penh for a while.
What's the capital like these days? How Chinese is it?
I don't see any. I think they were most in Sihanoukville, but a lot went home when the Corona thing started. People say some have come back, but I don't know. I was in Siem Reap / Angor Wat some months ago. There were some Chinese tourists, and some French. Not much else.
I've read about a guy who spoke to his son only in Klingon. The child was the first to be native speaker of it. But eventually he dropped it, as he started noticing that no one else besides his father spoke it.
That sounds like a remarkable stupid consooom thing to do. I also doubt Klingon has all the nuances and width and depth of a real language. But other than that, that was basically how Hebrew was revitalized. It was a dead language, until some extremely obsessed and as I recall abusive father taught his children it.
If I remember correctly, the father is a linguist, so he kind of conducted an experiment on his son. Other people were talking English with them, so no real harm done.
Okay, I've just read some fundie stuff that I've had no idea existed. Some families that stick to "pop out as many kids as it's humanely possible" have the "buddy system". At some point a mother can't really take care of all her kids, so she assigns older girls to be mother figures for their younger siblings. One girl can get several youngsters to take care of and she does *everything*. She bathes, feeds, homeschools them (forgoing her own education in the process), reeds them night stories etc. She's basically a mother for these kids. But she also has to get married early, sometimes just when she's 18. So these kids pretty much lose their mother figure in their family.
What the hell, why people think that having more kids than they can take care of is a good idea.
They don’t care about the kids, just god, obviously. Followed by dad the patriarch
My son is driving my daughter to a event after school because I'm working and my wife is going to be out of town.
We're obviously horrible parents.
There's a great difference between making your older kid a parent and them helping you out from time to time. These older siblings in fundie families don't just help here and there, they do everything and always. They're the main parents.
I'm just surprised you only heard of this now? Its kinda how big families have always worked.
I'm not sure that you got what I'm talking about. It isn't just about helping out your parents from time to time, it's about being the main parent for some of your siblings. So when a mother stops breastfeeding a kid, she assigns them to one of her older daughters (only daughters, not sons). And from that point this daughter takes 100% care of the kid. She doesn't *help*, she is their mother figure. She takes care of them during the day, they come to her for comfort, she goes to hospital with them etc.
You should look into cooperation with human linages. It’s pretty much what you’re describing and is actually pretty natural
Well, for some species killing their babies in times of hunger is also natural. But we generally try not to do things just because they're natural if we know that they harms others.
Yup I've dated girls who were in that situation.
Probs good mothers, but i just can't connect with them intellectually.
Maybe its a southern baptist thing
I used to have some friends from big families. A lot of them were adamant about being childfree, they got fed up with kids and nappies before they even graduated school.
Sounds like Quiverful, or perhaps Amish. I mean, that's how it worked for 99.9% of human history. And these kids seems a whole lot more sane and struggling with a lot less issues to do with mental health issues than most other children in the modern world.
Btw. I had my wife's 13yo & 1yo nieces stay during the Corona period because her mother wanted them out of the city. The 13yo did all these things you speak of. That's how it works as soon as you go to more traditional cultures.
> And these kids seems a whole lot more sane and struggling with a lot less issues to do with mental health issues than most other children in the modern world.
In the 19 kids and counting family (the most publicly known of these quiverfull families), the eldest son molested several of his younger sisters, and the family covered it up.
And, I just checked wikipedia to double check this… and found out apparently, the dad has been arrested on suspicion of possession of child porn. He is awaiting trial with an ankle bracelet, and can’t see his kids without supervision.
Pretty messed up.
I suspect, like in a lot of hyper-controlling, insular, religious communities, abuse is often covered up.
I really don't think that these people really have any less mental issues than the rest of us. They just believe that they can pray them away.
Doesn't sound that much different from when children grow up without parents and have to fend for themselves. They tend to "grow up" early because they're caring for someone else. I've heard a few stories where some kids were adopted and the oldest still looked after the youngest like a parent. Apparently this protectiveness a way to tell that they've had hard lives or grew up in rough situations. Sometimes it can be necessary but in this case it does sound like traditional fundie family dynamics. I'd imagine that this is what women who get abortions and had no birth control would do with their children if they couldn't get abortions and couldn't just abandon their children.
That's rather terrible. Children shouldn't be assigned as parents for their younger siblings. And fundies are people who don't use any kind of contraceptives and believe that a woman shouldn't refuse husband. So they pop out lots of children.
Women who'd do an abortion or use contraception, would try at least calendar methods or just wouldn't have sex.
There's a huge difference between older siblings helping out here and there and them being the main parental figure for the kids.
>That's rather terrible. Children shouldn't be assigned as parents for their younger siblings.
Sometimes it can be necessary, especially in poorer countries or places. Children don't exactly have the luxury of being babied for most of their developing period like they do in more developed countries where they would have everything they need to live safely.
>And fundies are people who don't use any kind of contraceptives and believe that a woman shouldn't refuse husband. So they pop out lots of children.
That would happen in any place where there wasn't birth control or abortion regardless of their beliefs. Idk if everyone starts out as fundies until they get modern and evolve into progressive liberals or if that's just a common way that people lived before modernity and technology advancements.
>Women who'd do an abortion or use contraception, would try at least calendar methods or just wouldn't have sex.
Nah. You give them too much credit, and they'd slip up at least a few times.
I get that it can be necessary under some conditions, but just popping out a bunch of kids knowing that you can't take care for them yourself isn't what a good or sensible parent does.
That's not really true. People can at least use pull out or calendar method. And everyone should be able to refuse having sex.
Of course people using unreliable method would slip, but they at least wouldn't have >10 kids.
>I get that it can be necessary under some conditions, but just popping out a bunch of kids knowing that you can't take care for them yourself isn't what a good or sensible parent does.
I don't think it's about being "good" or "sensible" there. There's nothing inherently good/bad or sensible/insensible about having sex or reproducing. It's just something that animals do.
>That's not really true. People can at least use pull out or calendar method. And everyone should be able to refuse having sex.
Yes, but the question is "will they?" Most younger people probably won't and are too irresponsible to pull out or keep track of dates and times already anyway.
>Of course people using unreliable method would slip, but they at least wouldn't have >10 kids.
10 is already a lot lol. They'll still have somewhere between 5 and 10 like they did in the time period before birth control and abortions were a thing.
We have contraception, having more kids than you can afford/can take care of is immoral.
I'd guess that most will, as they don't want to pop out a kids a year.
This is called parentification and it’s literally a form of abuse.
Of course it's abuse, they abuse all their children involved into this fucked up system.
Not to go full fedora but religious fundamentalists are sociopaths
I'd guess that a lot of people who stay inside these communities are victims of the system.
r/pics turning into a porn sub.
Just search freckles and you'll see more.
Nasty degenerates posting shit like this getting young kids addicted to porn. I swear this gen z is gonna be the most useless generation yet. Porn addicted, no skills, selling naked pictures online ect. Parents keep your kids off the internet.
How does every thread derail into little penis jokes
Body shaming is horrible, when it happens to women 🤬
calm down boomer.
Every generation thinks current young generation sucks. You aren't reinventing the wheel here. People were whining about the youth for thousands of years. Back in the 20's women wearing pants is considered a "scandal." There are even some cultures that exists today where women showing their shoulder and arms is considered a controversy.
Also btw, there is no such thing as "porn addiction." Some people use porn as a crutch the same way hoarders stuff their homes with junk. Its a preexisting condition.
Saying porn addiction exists is like calling a hoarder a "beer can addict" because he keeps hundreds of beer cans in his home.
What woman here is brave enough to admit that they have the 666 requirement?
666 isn't that important TBH. 666s aren't chads.
5ft 10 Artists who are in shape with great hair and a great face will outperform 666 guys most days on the week.
666 doesn't cover:
- being in shape
- good hair
- facial attractiveness
It's supposed to be the rule of 6s, Salary, Dick Size, Height, House, Car, Abs, etc.
Car? House? 6 what?
6 figure price
That's dumb. If you can afford a 6 figure car, a 6 figure house is peanuts.
666 is beta
Stacy's want 8888
* 8 inch dick
* 8 feet tall
* 8 figure income
* 8 pack abs
Lol who tf is 8 feet
[Look at the girlies admiring this super chad](https://guinnessworldrecords.com/Images/Robert-Wadlow-Colourised-By-PMH_tcm25-511586.jpg). I bet they're dreaming about his 12 inch dick.
Women want him, men fear him 😰
I must have not sent you my pics yet
Let me see
[Here you go](https://postimg.cc/8j2ZF4k8)
777, I exclusively date NBA players.
You’re dating ballers wow 🤩
These women are post wall. The 666 requirement didn’t exist back in their day. They didn’t have the luxury of being as delusional as women today. For better or for worse. They may actually like their partners. Women today resent theirs. Women couple with their looks match and claim they settled. Not enough chad to go around.
There are enough women in their 20s. I'm in my middle 20s.
If I can’t get Stacy. I’ll just focus on myself. Once I make enough “lifestyle” for a woman then I’ll date younger.
I don’t stand in the store and wait for free samples. I leave the store and come back when I have enough money to buy what I want.
Good for you, I guess. Do you often feel the need to talk about it when it has little to do with the topic?
What is considered post wall? I’ve heard men say it starts at 30 but lately I’ve been hearing that it actually starts at 25
Anyone that's says anything lower than 40 is pretty delusional
The decline starts at about 22-23 for most women. They smack into the wall at about 30. After 30 they try to hang onto whatever youthfulness they have left. Now it’s all about aging gracefully. All that chad chasing starts weighing on her. Some turn into decent milfs. The rest, god bless them.
Why is it brave to admit you have decent standards?
Lol women tend to downplay their standards because they don’t want backlash from men
Ok well I'd never call it the 666 rule, but obviously women want the best partner they're able to get. Height, money and a decent dick are pretty universally desired. Why wouldn't they get that if they are able to? Doesn't seem particularly controversial.
Most of the girls on PPD don't like sex enough to care about dick size. The other two requirements are well established. Just search the threads asking what the women here are attracted to and what their dealbreakers are. And for the record, I only fall short of this requirement on height by 2 inches, I'm not bitter about it.
>Most of the girls on PPD don't like sex enough to care about dick size
Controversial but true. And same with the men who want virgins or low N. Obviously not in to good sex lmao
>Most of the girls on PPD don't like sex enough to care about dick size.
Lol I've had convos here with women who thought 7" was average
How many are busting out a ruler though?
The exact mm doesn't matter but they know what big and average is
Actual 7 is like 9 in women inches
It's not just women inches. The same phonomenon happens on Grindr too.
I don't understand.
Not all women are size queens, you know.
That's a shame, I don't have much else to brag about
Yes, vagina can stretch, but it still has limits, especially width-wise. Alas we all have physical boundaries.
>but it still has limits,
But them limits are far beyond any penis any man has.
Not really. The fact that a baby can go squeeze through it doesn't mean that there aren't limits. During pregnancy vaginal walls adapt themselves and become far more stretchable than they usually are. After giving birth they return to their normal state.
Wasn't even thinking of babies.
Plenty of dildo's out there that are larger than any penis and with enough practice a women can ride a dragon.
I really don't think that *all* women can ride a dragon. Or that all of us would enjoy it.
You could, it just takes practice and working up to that size (the women who do use them aren't naturally that size)
The vagina is a muscle that can be stretched to take things like this just like the anus can.
Guessing this means 6 feet tall, 6 inch dick, and 6 figure salary?
What about his whine is gaslighting?
The top reply says to work out harder
Isn't it funny how even women agree that women are worse to date than men?
I will say that an average looking girl will have a rough time trying to find another woman to date. First off, most women are straight. She has a very small pool to work with. Second off, women's standards are still super high, whether they are gay or straight. Third, women expect to be courted. You still have to initiate and have game. Would you agree with this?
You just made the comment about 666 men right? So what's your equivalent for gay women lol
you're right the small pool, but its not so much about being courted. I think that's an expectation that falls on men. most lesbians I know don't wait around for another lesbian to woo her, they're more active and take more initiative than straight women, they don't fall into a passive role.
they're however very picky and similarly to straight women, would rather be alone than with someone they're meh about. a lot of them seem to pine for straight women for years too, so that makes dating more complicated.
I find these posts hilarious every time they come by. They might be able to give men bullshit but they can’t lie to themselves on this lmao
Do you think most people don’t know that lesbians are a minority, women are pickier than men, and women don’t approach?
Because I’m pretty sure they do
it's probably still easier than men because lesbian women don't get flooded with validation from men unless they're bi
I impression is that bi women are much more common than lesbians.
We all know these things, I hope
Yes I think more people here end up red pilled whether they like it or not
Common knowledge is not red pill
common knowledge can overlap with red pill, as is the case here
Then why call it red pill
This seems to be a common complaint among bi and lesbian women to my understanding.
I don’t agree with this lol, I’d never want to date men
No I'm asking would you agree that an average lesbian woman has just as hard of time dating women as straight men.
We have a harder time because of homophobia and we have way less options than straight men
Also because women have higher standards than men and women expect to be pursued. Also you arent bi so ofcourse you prefer women.
So you think bisexuals prefer men? I’d agree because don’t really think they like women that much, at least to me
Not that they prefer men but that men are easier to flirt and date.
I don’t understand this sub, is this where the sane people from TRP and TBP meet each other to discuss things or a 2nd ship for those people from there who doesn’t like some of those lunatics in there?
I came for the beer and the bitches.
You will get a whole goddamn pack of bitches in 2xchromosome
I dunno, plenty of bitches here too.
Welcome to the relationship pharmacy: we got a pill for what ails ya.
> is this where the sane people
Loool … have an updoot
A little bit of both, plus a few femcels and incels who jumped ship after their subs were banned.
is it shameful to try to start a business and fail?
Trying something even when you know there's a chance at failure is a courageous thing, a trait most people lack. You can only fail if you're willing to try and most people aren't willing
Not at all. Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all, so to speak
No - look at the stats about how many times entrepreneurs fail before they have success
Failure is the rule
sensible take, thanks for sharing
You know it’s not; stop fishing
I don't think he is fishing. Like many special people here he simply doesn't understand the value of intangibles like experience.
idk, is it? You waste time, money, resources, and walk away with nothing.
Anyway, how can a theoretical question be fishing
Everyone knows the business failure rate, and every successful famous businessman blabs on and on about their failures and the value of persistence and resilience
Nope. It's shameful to start a business and then sell out your customers and employees for the sake of capital greed though.
Today I met a 24 year old divorcee. Being divorced at that age is wild to me. How do you end up there? How badly does the other person have to fuck up for you to decide to go through with that that early?
Were they military, by any chance?
You know teens can marry, right ?
I mean I wouldn't say it's a good thing but yeah. Still she was divorced by 23 she said, that means she was married at most for 5 years. That's an extremely short time
Not really surprising. The divorce by age married curve is a bathtub
I know, I'm not surprised by the divorce itself, more just the whole situation. Like why would you ever be dumb enough to do that
Young marriages have a high failure rate
Divorce is almost inevitable for most people. They should get comfortable with the idea that they're relationship/marriage isn't going to last forever.
What? Educated and employed couples have \~30% divorce rates. I wouldn't call in inevitable.
Educated and employed couples aren't the only couples that exist. Most marriages end in divorce. Of course, if you start separating by categories and demographics, the numbers are going to shift around, but the overall marriage-divorce statistic does not.
As far as I remember half of all marriages end up in divorce. That's not "most". That's a half. And divorce rates have been dropping for a few decades now btw.
>As far as I remember half of all marriages end up in divorce. That's not "most". That's a half.
Statistically, anything greater or equal to 50.1% can be considered "most."
>And divorce rates have been dropping for a few decades now btw.
That's because marriage rates have been dropping, not because less people are getting divorced.
it doesn't matter if marriage numbers are dropping if she's talking about divorce percentages
First marriages have a 35% divorce rate, the 2nd+ are skewing the stats to be 50% ish.
That said... 35% is a fucking high chance to wager your life and money on
Yeah I guess there's too many different categories to divide up the data on to get an overall accurate picture of how many couples end up divorcing.
Google says it's 50%. Not 50.1%.
*Rates*. Not just pure numbers. Less people get married but also lower percent of them gets divorced.
Are any of these people your type? Or do you consider them attractive?
None of the men are my type personally, but they're all very attractive except 2pac.
I think the men are a tad boyish-looking though. I'd prefer more along the lines of Idris Elba.
Interesting, I think pac is very good looking.
My type is just attractive people.
Even tho I am the first one to say black women are the least attractive women, these black women are all attractive. However lots of them don't present many black features, some of them are really just white women with black skin and thus why they appeal to more people.
Ffs stop being so theatrical I said SOME OF THEM.
Yes they have bigger lips and wider noses but they're the tiniest lips and noses the black kingdom.
Only first girl has an above average nose size for a woman. It's bellow average for a black woman. All other women in that list have racially ambivalent noses.
Most of these girls have bellow average lip size for black women. Sightly above average compared to all women.
Most of these also have a light complexion, some are racially ambiguous.
Their chin and jaw size are all bellow average for black women. Including the nose, that is why they appear more feminine than your avg black woman.
The one before last really is your typical white actress but with dark skin.
YOU have no idea what you're talking about.
> Your comments are starting to border on racism.
Facts aren't racist. Just accept you're unobservant.
> Black women do not have huge noses.
Black people from western africa, which are common in europe and in the USA, tend to have bigger noses than any other ethnicity.
> Alot of black women look like the ones I linked. Especially in America.
Yes and a lot more do not. The principle of average is what's most commonly seen, not that deviants do not exist.
> You straight up called them white when they have all the features of black people.
According to you, saying black people got features is border on racism, don't be an hypocrite.
What I said is that all these black women have soft features closer to white, latino or asian people than to black people.
> Again, you haven't seen enough black people to make this conclusion.
You're literally the only person on earth who thinks black people do not have bigger noses.
These women are all attractive. About half of them would be "my type," whatever that means.
all of the men are objectively attractive but none of them are my type tbh.
no, they're just not my type of black men facially
they all have that square sharp hyper masculine face structure. very conventionally attractive but not really what I personally like.
if you want an example of a conventionally attractive celebrity, Michael b Jordan is a black actor I always found super hot, he still has masculine face features but not as sharp as your examples.
if you want a less famous person, @sebs_lovesongs on tiktok is also super attractive to me.
They're all good looking
No for men
Women are beautiful, but I'm not bisexual/lesbian
Men: 4, 5, 7, 9.
Guy 9 and I are hair twins, it would be fun to braid each other's hair.
A man with long hair is glorious, there's something very primal about it.
Why do you keep posting these?
It's good to get a sense of what people here mean when they talk about attractive people, especially some non-celebrity examples
I don’t disagree, but
A) it’s his third post today with the same pics
B) it ignores that women have a reactive sexuality that isn’t responsive to pics
C) the guys are all celebs
A) I can post however many pictures I want
B) women respond to pics the same as men
C) plenty of these men and women are unknowns
No, you post the same 6 pics of each gender. Serious question - are you ok? You seem like you’re hyperfocusing
I never said I didn't post the same pictures. Yeah sure I recycle some so what? Skip over my post if you don't want to see it.