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boofthegirl

This is definitely how 99% of my friends use tinder too


TodTheRod01

So is that a yes or no to OP's question...


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TodTheRod01

Thats cool...just wanted an answer,


IcarusKiki

No I have to meet him irl first. I cant get turned on by a picture. Swiping right for a woman just puts him in the running for getting laid its not an instant yes.


Admirable-Device-541

Valid. Im like you. I need more but I wonder why most guys say its different for them


IcarusKiki

bc men are attracted to different things than women. Theyre more visual while were more “conceptual” i guess? Which is why porn is mostly make dominated.


Admirable-Device-541

But at the same time i sometimes see girls post things on insta like a pic of a hot guy or a vid and itll get a ton of likes and it says something along the lines of them wanting to automatically do somethig sexual with them based off of how pretty they are. Like pretty privilage is a thing with both genders but going against what you said in this comment, i think girls are more focused on looks than guys.. its just certain girls and certain guys that arent and thats you and i..


IcarusKiki

yeah but its usually an actor - like timothy chalamat or whatever isnt that attractive and kind of looks dorky to me but girls go crazy for him bc of his roles and personality


TodTheRod01

Timothy chalamet...is def not what i would think comes to mind grown women would throw themselves at...he looks 12... But i do agree with the other part...its usually the clout, the fame, etc....that attract the women


Admirable-Device-541

Valid.


kittenated

How could I know if I want to have sex with someone based solely on my seeing a picture of them? A bunch of pixels. I haven't even met them yet! I have no idea who they are, if they're nice, if they're emotionally or intellectually engaging, if they stink, if they have social difficulties, if they're an asshole, nothing. Showing interest based on a picture is just that. I can't base whether I want to have sex with someone on that alone!


MisterJose

> How could I know if I want to have sex with someone based solely on my seeing a picture of them? This is a hilarious statement as a guy. I literally do this almost every day.


kittenated

Idk why men are feeling compelled to tell me this. I think every woman alive knows this.


MisterJose

Your incredulity to the idea that someone could want to have sex with someone after seeing a picture of them suggested otherwise, which is why people are responding that way.


kittenated

I'm not incredulous about why men would want to have sex with someone looking at a picture at all. This is a question for women, not men.


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jordan_form

disagree. if you use OLD enough, there are many people you think are hot in pictures and in real life they are a 3. it's just insane what the right angle in photographs can do.


mairomaster

Nah, no amount of angles turn a 3 into a 8. That's just BS.


jordan_form

even make up alone can turn a 3 into an 8.


mairomaster

Total BS, I guess you don't know how the scale works then. If that was the case, absolutely every woman you see in a social environment outside would have been fucking gorgeous.


jordan_form

i never said EVERY 3 can become an 8. you have to have the right face for it, which is a bland looking face with no prominent features. [https://nypost.com/2021/06/16/tiktok-mom-slams-trolls-hating-on-her-dentures-and-makeovers/](https://nypost.com/2021/06/16/tiktok-mom-slams-trolls-hating-on-her-dentures-and-makeovers/) it is possible for SOME women. it is not possible for all women. And not all women choose to fraud this drastically. Just like there are men that lie about their height by 5 inches, while other men lie about their height by 1 inch.


mairomaster

Sure, one of those dumbass TikTok videos where people make themselves look terrible on purpose and then they make themselves look as good as possible. Good one bruh. Guess what, if "you have the right face for it" you've never been a 3 in a first place.


jordan_form

i mean, you think there's no other examples? you really think that make up can't be insanely transformative, coupled with the right angles in photography?


mairomaster

It can be for very small portion of the people. But exceptions don't do the norms.


daddysgotanew

Men don’t manipulate their photos like women do


catsinbananahats

Bullshit. They hold someone else's dog to make women think it's their dog. They take pictures at weird angles or only put pictures of themselves with hats or sunglasses on to hide their receding hairlines or weak eye area.


jordan_form

they also lie about their height by a ridiculous amount sometimes. beards hide their weak jaws. they use older photos when they were thinner. men and women are the same.


tka482

The dog thing is pathetic. Women do the same thing to mask orbital retrusion aka "ugly eye area". Its hilarious how many guys pay for a professional photographer and take these cringy wannabe model pictures where they look away from the camera or have weird angles and try and look cool. It's the saddest thing ever because you can tell they paid for a photoshoot 😂😂😂😂😂 I remember looking through one of fwbs tinder accounts and we were laughing together at the pathetic betas who did that


omegaatlas

Got 20 matches after doing that. Asked all my girl friends too and professional or better looking photos help tremendously


Pro_CKM

I didn't have a professional photoshoot but started using a my sister's high quality camera for pictures. Made sure to dress well and to have nice, well-lit backgrounds. Number of likes shot up quite a lot.


omegaatlas

Agreed


PreparationWorried33

They do use old photos though. They also post photos with accessories that obscure their faces a bit.


SuspiciousRule

The ir are male cat fishers. Seen in the incel forums.


lemurianelf

...Most women on tinder are looking for relationships. I would swipe right because his profile says he's stable, fairly attractive and we have something in common. It's a first pass to a conversation to see whether I'd want to go on date. After that, about 30% of men imply or state they want just sex. I unmatch those immediately. Then another 60% are boring or there is no vibe in conversation. So the remaining 10% I would go on date with. About half of the 10% ends up being a date because of a variety of reasons a date falls through. Out of those dates, I'd say 1/5 let to a second date and a small number of those to a relationship. I am not interested in sex with strangers and never been.


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lemurianelf

I don't swipe on 5%. Where did I say that? I swipe right on about 20%. Match with 200, date with 20, 4 second date and 1 for relationship. Sounds about right over a 4-5 month period.


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lemurianelf

I would match almost with everyone I swipe right on. Over 90% for sure. Guys swipe right on anyone who isn't obese or super ugly so... these are estimates based on my active dating life in 2016-2017, so don't drill me on the exact percentages.


tka482

This equation isn't complete without her rating. If she's an 8/10 she will be more selective than say a 6/10. There are so many 5 and 6s who have inflated egos due to all the matches they get. They aren't self aware to realize 99% of men on OLD will bang any girl above a 4/10 in most cases. 5-6 we will keep them as fwbs and 7+/10 is relationship material


Sekina7

So let me get this straight, The SAME guy who creepily wrote "Not saying that can't happen but it's so annoying how some girls think they can use sex as a bargaining chip to get commitment for a guy. It's such a cringy thing and manipulative thing to do" and in THE SAME BREATH admits most guys a looking to bang any warm hole? Do you hear yourself? Jesus. Just admit you see women as walking blow up sex dolls and hire one to fuck you . But I bet you also want the ego stroke and validation of sex with women you would ignore the next day. Hypocrite.


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Are they boring because you are boring?


lemurianelf

They're welcome to unmatch me if they find me boring. And I highly doubt that. I often message first with a comment on their profile and have varied interests, am well traveled. Often, we're just not compatible. A guy who works from home, grabs a beer every Friday and likes Marvel movies and COD isn't someone I find interesting and maybe the feeling is mutual on his side. I'm cool with that


tka482

Lol cod. It's pretty amazing how many guys in their 20s waste time with Vidya games. Pretty sad actually I stopped playing video juegos in high school. Also I work from home most the time get travel for work often too. Working from home is kinda a dumb thing to judge people on.. I'd love to know what you think a guy needs to do to be interesting in your mind


lemurianelf

I don't mind the work from home. Like I said, it's the overall package of not having a social life and very sedentary lifestyle. For the record my husband loves video games but his other hobbies and interests make up for it.


tka482

What are these hobbies/interest that make up for playing video games


lemurianelf

We both like archeology, hiking, cooking and politics. When we travel, we go to historical and archeological sites together 😊


tka482

Your both basic B's. 😜 Haha jk but archeological sites are actually a uniquely cool thing to check out. As are museums.


lemurianelf

Oh yeah! Not for everyone to look at old bricks and stones but I go full nerd looking at old Roman wheel tracks in the stone 😅


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Just checking. In my experience boring people are the ones overly concerned with boring


lemurianelf

Boring is the wrong word. When you don't mesh in a conversation, you don't vibe etc. No one is inherently boring, people are just compatible or not


TheBookOfSeil

"Don't be boring (because one of us has to be able to hold the conversation and it's not me)."


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Exactly. I mean if you hike, kayak, camp, like road trips, etc is being “active”. When people talk about boring it sounds like they want a court jester as they sit on their throne of boring to entertain them.


TheBookOfSeil

Yes, that's usually exactly what they want. They want someone to say funny things, tell them interesting stories and keep them occupied from their uneventful evenings alone.


hatit516

Another person said it best in another post and I find this to be true most women are bored and don’t do anything so they rely on the guy to make thing interesting. If it wast for me my fiancé would be bored out her mind it’s it was like that with other girl. And other guys I know shared that same thing about girl they involved with


Effing_Normans

That's been my experience prior to my current love. 0 hobbies so you need to constantly entertain. Buddy married a girl like this and is miserable


Effing_Normans

Oof whats wrong with working from home


lemurianelf

Nothing is wrong with it. It's the fact his life is quite monotonous.


dbz19

Interesting, but why tinder? Why not eharmony or something? Is it because tinder is the most famous? I thought tinder is built specifically for random hook ups, so I don't understand why someone would look for relationships on it when the guys there are probably looking for hook ups.


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Tinder has a massive male surplus. This makes it easier for women to get what they want.Either be committed relationship or hookups.


Admirable-Device-541

But if you know what you want, (a relationship) why go somehwere like tinder where you jnow guys mostly are there for hookups. Why NOT go to somewwhere like e harmony i bet you theres NO shortage of guys there too.


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Most women on Tinder aren't looking for dates or relationships either. Tinder is filled with Bots,scams,Sex workers, IG influencers and girls who are just passing their time chatting with men without any intention of ever meeting them.


Admirable-Device-541

Fucking well played.


lemurianelf

I had the best success dating on tinder. Everyone is on it. Tinder was initially built for hookups but they remarketed themselves because hookups attracted very few women. If you check, tinder does not consider itself a hookup app. I never tried eharmony or those boomer sites but from what i heard, it's full of bots, scammers and people looking for immigration papers😆 i did not like bumble personally. Felt like the guys were less quality on it. My experience only. And most guys on tinder wanted a relationship. At least the ones I spoke to. Many men make it clear whether via pictures or bio, they want something casual and I swipe left on those.


TheLoneMushroom

Weird cause that’s the exact opposite experience I’ve had. I only tried for a month tho. Most attractive women just wanted a hookup, and my sister showed me her tinder and every guy was a moron and also most of them just wanted a hookup.


lemurianelf

Don't forget I down selected for the ones that had a bio and looked like guys wanting to settle down. I also was dating at 26-27. Men are done with the playboy phase by then usually.


TheLoneMushroom

Why even date a male who went through a playboy phase? Anyways I’m 27 now so I may as well try again. I’m so tired of hookup culture.


lemurianelf

People change. My husband had that phase. I'd argue it's better to settle with a man like that because he's experienced the hookup casual culture and doesn't feel fomo about it anymore.


Chance_Base_854

But once you get a taste, are you ever really satisfied not doing it anymore? Depends on the person and most will manipulate you into believing they’ve grown so they can do it behind your back. Yeah, I’ve been married to one of those too.


nemma88

>But once you get a taste, are you ever really satisfied not doing it anymore? I'm not a guy but there's lots of anecdotes from places like TRP that when you haven't missed out casual sex can become unfulfilling for the individual. YMMV and some guys will be more or less suited for it, likewise men who know they're attractive don't get FOMO so much even when not having casual sex.


dbz19

ok well I guess time to download tinder.


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Its not worth it because you can't filter by education and other things. Like you are likely to get a complete idiot. A hot idiot but still an idiot.


tka482

It's pretty sad to be on those apps searching for a relationship. Most guys know these dating apps are for friends with benefits type situation, not for someone to find a wife or husband. Not saying that can't happen but it's so annoying how some girls think they can use sex as a bargaining chip to get commitment for a guy. It's such a cringy thing and manipulative thing to do


Sekina7

How is a girl who is only comfortable allowing someone to PENETRATE HER (and with all the consequences that come along with that ) inside of a committed relationship? I think you're confused and in denial about being too broke and/or insecure to hire sex workers. You know , the type who will spread eagle for you and leave once done. Problem?


tka482

There's so much wrong with what you wrote I don't even know where to begin. First off, please explain the "consequences" that come with safe sex. There's this invention called a condom you may not have heard of. Secondly, you don't get to "commited relationship" status without having sex. At least no high value man would commit to such terms. Thirdly, it's hilariously sad how you think sex is only beneficial to men. I want an fwb therefore I hire a "sex worker" LOL. It's like your incapable of realizing an ONGOING fwb type situation can be a mutually beneficial experience for both parties. Which is clearly something you've never experienced.


Chance_Base_854

“High value man” 😂 it’s a man so that’s impossible


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Mrs_Drgree

Be civil.


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Mrs_Drgree

Do not circlejerk.


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TodTheRod01

Kind of funny you think 60% are boring...how many men do you think say the same about women or even you?


cccccclairee

Of course not. I swiped because they had something interesting or attractive in their profile. I might get to know them based on whatever the next interactions are like, and meet them in person. I might sleep with them if I like them based on that


Orange_Paisley

I’ve never been on Tinder but I did a short stint on OKC and definitely would not have had sex with every guy I ended up chatting with.


midwestufohunter

No? I would have sex w zero of them wtf? I’m not agreeing to sex bc of a photo. He could be gross and creepy.


BassPotato

Bro, honestly what type if question is this. I completely understand why someone would want to stay lightyears away from this sub


TheBookOfSeil

They're basically asking if women only swipe right on "hawt guys."


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It is just a question..for women…bro


BassPotato

It’s just weird, like imagine this post is the first thing people see on this subreddit. Anyways, what do I care proceed


angels-fan

Then why the fuck are you here?? See ya.


BassPotato

It’s just a dumb and weird question. Of course most women don’t fuck every guy they match with. You could easily match with a girl and never get a response. If you’ve actually used a dating app this question would be a no brainer


angels-fan

I was referring to "stay light years away from this sub"


CimZim

Do you only want responses from women who use Tinder specifically, or women who use/used actual dating apps too?


HotDamImHere

Yes


CatchPhraze

"The first "type" I consider to be pretty or cute and based on their looks alone I would like to be in romantic relationship with them." This seems like ill worded or a huge red flag. Appearance is a qualifier, one of many you should have for a relationship and not a sole defining factor . You have gone full in on the halo effect to think you're being at all effective veting woman by looks alone. Don't do that.


Initial_Chemical7121

No. I’m pretty picky so I only swipe on people I could see myself dating. If we meet up and it goes well, I’d even still make them wait.


goatismycopilot

No.


CyberPanda_8822

Every guy that I swipe right on on Tinder is someone who I would definitely have sex with, just not immediately. I swipe on guys who I am attracted to but they also have to have stuff in their bios that makes me think we might be a good match for a LTR. If there is nothing in their bio at all or nothing that speaks to me, then its a no. Doesn’t matter how hot they are.


nicksbrunchattiffany

No. I would only have sex with a man if I feel good and safe about being with him, and If he feels the same.


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I haven't used dating apps since 2016, but if I'm swiping right I absolutely think he is worthy of having sex with. I mean, that's like 70% of what a relationship is about to me. If it wasn't for my sex drive I'd always be single. I just like having a hot guy I can have sex with and hang out with, but as a possessive person he must only be having sex with me (which is why I can't do FWB)


Need_wine

It depends on the woman, if she’s just looking for a hook up then she’s probably swiping on all the most attractive men to her and go from there. If she’s looking for an actual relationship then she’ll swipe on men that’s attractive or maybe slightly less (workable category) but it doesn’t mean she’ll sleep with them. Only the one she likes after vetting.


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I read that most people determine if they will have sex with someone in less that five seconds. Now admitting to that is another matter


CimZim

Can't even imagine being able to do that, unless the person is truly physically unfortunate, like "beaten with an ugly stick" levels of ugly.


Orange_Paisley

I’ve known some people for years before deciding to have sex with them so I don’t believe this at all.


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[article link](https://www.inc.com/melanie-curtin/science-says-you-do-this-surprising-thing-in-just-3-seconds-hint-it-has-to-do-with-attraction.html)


Orange_Paisley

So I’m deciding to have sex with these people without my knowledge? Doubt it.


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If you say so


deste_eloise

Finding someone attractive doesn’t mean you will have sex with them. Also, sometimes you see a photo of someone and they’re hot/not so hot and when you see them IRL they’re the opposite. I agree tho that IRL, you decide whether someone is physically attractive very quickly.


jordan_form

>a photo of someone and they’re hot/not so hot and when you see them IRL they’re the opposite. the poster might not have gone on enough OLD dates to experience this. you can do massive frauding with your photos. use old photos, lie about shit like height, etc. everyone that looked like a 10 i've seen in real life was more like a 7 and sometimes even a 6. i've met many people that looked like a 7 online but were more 4/5 in real life.


deste_eloise

I’ve never been on OLD, but I’ve seen pics of people online and then saw them IRL.. and you’re like 😳 😅😅


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I’ll be honest, I don’t know how a person’s brain works that fast. It takes me about five seconds just to switch into “I’m looking at/interacting with a person” mode.


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Fuckin wild. I wonder if neurodivergency (autism/adhd/whatever) changes that threshold for people.


IcarusKiki

in real life not through a static picture


Need_wine

Oversimplification, atleast for women. If you’re attractive and don’t give off creep vibes then yeah, I would be willing to sleep with you but I still need to get to you know you better before I actually do. Again, this is assuming I want a relationship. Appearances are deceiving and a lot of people show up to the first few dates as their representative before the mask falls.


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That must be a male thing lmao No woman I know will have sex with a guy after just five seconds of meetup


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I linked the article in another comment


ilovepetya

>or maybe slightly less (workable category) 🤮


ididntwanttoexist

No. I swipe left on anyone with no profile, low-effort/non-serious profile, or have some obvious incompatibility with me, regardless of how pretty they are. Those criteria rule out most people on dating apps. I have swiped right on men who were just ok looking because their profile was articulate/interesting and their personality seemed compatible. If someone is hideously ugly or has some feature I find insurmountably off-putting, I'll swipe left though (e.g. fat) but again most people don't bother to write anything at all, and I can't even think of a situation where someone's profile was amazing, but they were too ugly. Sometimes if someone superlikes me or sends a message on another app, and I'm iffy, I match out of curiosity, but that has a 100% disappointment rate, so I've mostly stopped doing that. I don't experience sexual attraction just based on looks and I'm very introverted, so the whole point of OLD for me is to pre-vet people's compatibility. Talking to someone I know nothing about based on them looking nice and having to suffer through 1000 mind-numbing "conversations" to find one that's remotely compatible defeats the purpose. I might as well force myself to socialize IRL if I were going to do that since at least then you have body language, and it's marginally harder for people to lie to you.


mackenzie013_02

Swiping right on OLD; no way. Swiping right in my head IRL; probably yes.


redkoicarp

>Would you have sex with the every single guy you right swiped on Tinder? I don't use tinder but *assuming* I'd use another kind of swiping app, I'd say these guys would meet the physical criteria to get intimate with them and pass this treshold, yes. So I wouldn't swipe on someone I am not attracted to, if that was the question. I would, of course, not sleep with any guy without knowing his personality ("only because he looks good") and before chatting with him and meeting up with him and finding out that we are actually compatible. If this is what the question was about, then "no", certainly.


CFinCanada

How can you determine if someone is relationship material just based on their looks without talking to them? Um, what? If I right-swiped a guy I considered him attractive enough but I couldn't determine if I wanted to have a relationship with him or not until I got more information about what he was like. This could only be determined by actually chatting with the guy. There were several guys I thought were really good-looking that I right-swiped, but then unmatched after talking to them.


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JacobMoogberg69

Here is your biggest problem as a guy when it comes to the apps. I have had this verified by several women. All they can go off of on apps is a guy's looks. He can barely do anything to show off his personality, confidence and self esteem. All they see is photos, so they say I may as well swipe on the guy that looks good, at least if we go on a date I can show my girlfriends that the guy was good looking. That puts the majority of men at a disadvantage because you cannot show what is naturally arousing to women such as confidence and ability to lead.


catsinbananahats

No, because I swipe right on every guy and I would not be willing to have sex with any of them


TomorrowsWar

I only match guys I feel actually attracted to. Whether I want to actually sleep with them will depend on our chemistry and if I liked him enough personally to sleep with him.


DXBrigade

Stats show that Tinder matches rarely lead to dates, not talking about sex.


neetykeeno

I don't do tinder but if I did...lol, no. How the fuck do you know if there isn't a deal breaker just from those photos? Geez. You could get right up to the bedroom and discover a crotch full of tendril-like warts and weeping sores. "No" is always an option. I wouldn't have sex with everyone who looked ok enough to chat with and you know what? Neither would you.


thetruthishere_

No. I dont even have sex with just any man for pay. A man can be very attractive but opens his mouth and a total turn off.


ruboyuri

Nope. Plenty of fuckable men ruin the credit their photos get them by voluntarily communicating their thoughts to women or acting like pervy shitbags


xcheshirecatxx

Men have the bad habit to have shitty pictures. Far away in the dark with a 2005 numeric camera So when I swipe left, I might just want to see what he looks like.


TEREKIKI

No


sweetestpineapple

If they look fuckable based on their pictures then yes, I’m on tinder during my Ho phases usually after a breakup and am looking for hookups. When I first got started with dating apps I didn’t know my type yet so I would talk to guys that were cute enough but would cancel if they weren’t attractive enough to be worth the risk of meeting up and potentially putting myself in danger. But I usually don’t meet up with guys without FaceTiming or at least calling them first. The voice is a huge factor in attraction for me, so if it’s not sexy then I’ll probably be turned off and not meet up with them. I’ve also FaceTimed guys who were considerably bigger or older than how they looked in their photos so I blocked them after to not waste either of our time. I’ve been in situations where I was fresh shaved and dressed up for a date, DTF but the guy just looked so different in person that I couldn’t do it but stayed for an awkward meal or walk out of politeness. I’m talking shorter than me and I’m 5’1. I don’t have high height requirements but there is a cutoff.


HobbitShaker88

God dang it OP, you are so judgmental. I would stay as far away from you as possible.


FarewellMyQueen

It depended. I right swiped on men who seemed attractive and had decent profiles only to find out they had terrible, awful personalities. No sex for them. And when I say terrible personalities, I mean like negging, being insulting, saying godawful things about other people, and lack of kindness and friendliness. I was never looking for a LTR, but someone that you could at least hold a conversation with, could feel comfortable around, and someone who was friendly. The men who I tended to have sex with were people that made me feel comfortable and safe and who, more often than not, could make me laugh and were genuine. They weren’t always the most traditionally good looking, but I found them sexy. Personality goes a long way. Sex and hookups should be fun and both parties should feel safe and comfortable.


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wtknight

Automod, please. Question for women.


pubgmisc

Just telling the truth


wtknight

You can "tell the truth" under the AutoModerator for questions for women if you are not a woman.


ChrimsonChin988

My guy you know the answer to this question. If you've either used tinder yourself or know any guy who has you know this is far from the truth. Women swipe maybe 10% of guys right and out of that 10% they maybe go on a date with 5% and have sex with even less. Glorious odds for the average guy /s


daddysgotanew

The only reason most women use it is to get validation and maybe the occasional hookup with some dude 5 points above her in looks


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Nah Just looking for some IG followers.Have no intention of meeting & fucking them irl