T O P
AutoModerator

Thank you for posting to r/SipsTea! Make sure to follow all the subreddit rules. ##Join our [Discord Server](https://discord.gg/WfnpQpZ5Yv)! *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/SipsTea) if you have any questions or concerns.*


jaedednfaded

The insecurity in this video is unreal


JamiePahr

Right! The security in the parking lot isn't doing anything about her parking next to the other ones boyfriend and it's her spot!?!?


Kurisu135

Ikr wtffffffffffff


turtlelabia

Twist: It’s a private parking lot for high profile individuals and the spot is paid for and marked “_____’s Girlfriend”


Acceptable-Jaguar-17

You're right. It's staged.


jaedednfaded

I hope so!


[deleted]

[удалено]


HumaDracobane

Or is just dumb. I love how when someone does something absurd there is always someone talking about "Maybe they're on medication", "Maybe that person didnt take their pills" or, etc In this case there is not much sign of anything that sugest she's on medication, she just said some really dumb shit.


Quirky_Value_9997

That's not the fault of the other girl though.


basti1309

Someone's disability or illness is not their fault, but their responsibility. It certainly is neither the fault nor the responsibility of other people (in this case the girl filming).


Strawberry_Condom

Honestly yeah, this gave me flashbacks of my ex. Either bipolar or borderline personality disorder.


M4500N

Or could just be an asshole


0521420

There’s nothing to really suggest that other than the fact she’s acting irrationally and insecurely. There is no pressured speech, she’s coherent not going off on tangents, and she’s relatively calm. I wouldn’t think anything’s wrong with her other than entitlement.


Square_Introduction1

I love how people have zero information about the incedent other than the video provided and jump to defend the woman and their excuse is she could be bipolar as if that is a resonable exuse to be a terrible person.


0521420

People just can’t wait to stigmatise mental illnesses they know nothing about in an attempt to play devil’s advocate for some random person online.


SendHelpImDumb7

Goodness me, did you not even look it up before diagnosing them?


Glad-Falcon-1333

Are you insecureee???!


Acceptable_Rise1311

Got to be a joke


Done_Playing_Games

“Are you insecure?” 😂😂 the best comeback!!


Bagonia77

"I know you did not just say that to me.." ha!! Girl has nothing good to come back with either other than its her boyfriend's spot...we get that. Lol.


buttercream-gang

That is a huge slap in the face to someone who is insecure, especially when they *know* they’re insecure but don’t want other people to see it.


New-Explanation7978

Well they’re probably pretty insecure about it.


EcchiPhantom

And the way she cocked her head back and tilted it brought the sassiness up to a whole other level


fishingfool64

Are you OK? 👌🏻


kevthunder

Are you?


LoyalPeep

You can’t park here


SpaceShark01

Park here?


soulseeker31

Next to my boyfriend's car


VisualConstruction55

It's a parking lot


VickTL

I can park next to anybody I want


FreeSeaworthiness237

Get out of my spot, are you crazy?


yahya966gamer

Are you insecure?


FreeSeaworthiness237

ARE YOU CRAZY???


SamirSisaken

PARKOUR!


StruggleInteresting9

![gif](giphy|DoCIC5Pxp57qg|downsized)


CriticismVegetable90

Is this not a perfectly reasonable place to park?


TheDownvotesFarmer

Why you park here?


Glittering-Abies-950

park where?


pukhalapuka

Under there


AcceptableCow2251

Under where?


Barrelbreak203

Over the top


ClassiFried86

You ready to go night night motherfucker


OathMeal_

Where should I sleep?


FreeSeaworthiness237

Not next to my boyfriend.


unk3n00wn

Gonna learn today!


HeadbandRTR

Over there. On the chair.


mralabbad

I know you are but what am i? Wait. . .


konan_the_bebbarien

TBH the concern expressed was genuine.


MorganRose99

I don't understand how those "people" can actually not understand how they're so clearly wrong


LifesATripofGrifts

Never been told no before.


Indianajonesy21

Nope, possibly cheated on to avoid having to say no. (Which isn’t right either lol)


[deleted]

You get people like this on Reddit all the time. They think if they throw enough of their emotion at the other person / commenter it’ll impact them in some way. They just assume that everyone is gonna be empathetic towards them on some level (they’re not too far off) but miss the part about them looking and sounding like an insecure tit. Doesn’t really go down too well when you factor in the cameras and internet, though.


ConsciousBox2029

Oh, it'll impact them alright.


IHateEditedBgMusic

Mental illness


goat_therandy

People really need to stop throwing around "mental illness" around as a catchall excuse for assholes. There are so many people out there who struggle with their mental health and never become an asshole. The woman is not mentally ill. She's just an asshole.


Crathsor

Or both: there are lots of people with mental illnesses to some extent, and some are assholes. The ones who aren't don't get viral videos made of them, but that doesn't mean the ones who do are invented or somehow less in need of help. Since poor mental health has such a stigma and we as a society tend to attach moral judgement to it like a bunch of ignorant savages, it is difficult to say how prevalent it really is.


DroppedNineteen

Yeah. Like realistically, if we were willing to approach these topics the way we should, you could likely look and see behavior like this as some type of trauma response - and recognize that this person 100% is going to need someone else's help to get over what it is that causes them to behave this way. It doesn't have to be bpd, or some other serious mental health problem for someone to need help dealing with it. Obviously, that doesn't excuse their behavior at all. And at some point, it's fair to expect someone to take accountability. But because of the way mental health is perceived, people would rather talk about what really qualifies as "trauma", or how "most" people manage to cope with whatever it is that person may or may not have been through. This type of group mentality probably doesn't make it any easier for this person to feel secure enough to ask for help. It's obviously important to recognize that people are often the unfortunate victims of another person's mental health issues. And the frustrations (and sometimes extremely traumatic experiences) those people have gone through are totally and undeniably valid. But maybe if we approached the topic of mental health differently as a whole, and approached it with less judgement *from all angles*, we could advance the discussion in such a way that both makes it easier for people struggling with mental health issues to get the help they need, as well as those who are negatively impacted by their behavior (which is generally going to be it's own mental health problem anyway). Idk, maybe that's too idealistic. And not everyone is going to accept help right away, and some may never accept it. But it's hard to see how anything gets better for them if everyone simply gives up on them because they are assholes.


Sulphri

Nah she’s definitely mentally ill.


[deleted]

[удалено]


Taint_What_You_Do

I agree that people shouldn't use 'mental illness' willy nilly like this, but at the same time, you can't claim that the woman in question *isn't* mentally ill. Even for a psychiatrist, this video isn't remotely close enough make a mental health assessment.


Pyrhan

There's a difference between "being an asshole" and "completely irrational behavior". \-edit- typo


bVI7N6V7IM7

People really need to stop throwing around "mental illness isn't a catchall for assholes". There are a lot of people out there who deal with mental illness. There are a lot of assholes in the world. They cross over very, very often. Neurotypical people do not flip out like this. If you are someone who flips out like this you are not neurotypical. Mental illness is common. Stop refuting that fact.


IHateEditedBgMusic

Maybe she's not merely ill but she 100% needs therapy, you don't behave like this if you're of sound mind. Asshole is one thing, but the woman is stuck in a loop, she's dealing with some shit.


Electronic_Bottle272

Right! How could she not understand that she was parking next to someone's boyfriend, so inconsiderate


Vasevide

ArE YoU CraZy?


EquivalentSnap

But it’s her bfs parking lot /s


Rowlandum

They must know they are wrong, they are just bullies


_HoneyDew1919

Doss no one else think this sounds stupid fake?


BettyLaBomba

To be fair, I've met people who talk like this. Sounds like they're talking from a script they don't actually remember Not saying yay or nay on the fake thing, but some people just sound like that


Perle1234

Lol I would just roll up the window and be about my business.


nelly_beer

I wouldn’t trust them not to fuck up my car though. Id at least try to get a shot of them and a license plate before leaving my vehicle


Perle1234

Yeah for sure.


Hazzman

Wreck your car at best or do something much worse. You never know who the hell you are dealing with out there. People are insane.


Dads_going_for_milk

Yeah that lady obviously has some serious issues. Who knows what she’d do. I’d most likely just pull away and find another spot.


Fuck_AskMen_Mods

I wouldn’t want to give into their entitlement and let them think they can get away with being a cunt. But is it worth the crazy bitch starting something


realboujee

Let them fuck up your car, that's insurance baby. She would be Paying for you.


cammyk123

Have you ever dealt with insurance or just generally anything in real life lol? Yea, let's let someone fuck my car up and be out of pocket for months until insurance *might* pay out.


thelazylazyme

Exactly, or the amount of people I see that go ‘why don’t you just sue’


malefiz123

Never forget that the majority of reddit are suburban teenagers and 20 something's from bumfuck nowhere who never had to deal with anything remotely challenging in their life. Life advice you get here has like a 50% chance of being live advice that demographic copied from other people like them, or something they saw on TV


earthdogmonster

“Lawyer up” they’ll say…


cammyk123

I love that advice on reddit lol, as if it's as easy as just walking in to a law office and saying lawyer please, and you need to pay them upfront.


Odd-Cartoonist-288

Then your insurance might go up.


CMJ_888

Dude insurance never pays what the car is worth not to mention the hassle of dealing with the company. Also she seemed pretty young. Just speculation here of course but when I was young I wasn’t rich. Had PLPD insurance. In this case if someone did something to my car I’m screwed. All PLPD does is cover costs of hospital bills no car bills. So if someone fucked up your car cause they didn’t like you. Too bad no car….


SavvySillybug

Here in Germany, my dad got his side ~~window~~ mirror swiped off by someone dodging a cat. Insurance looked at it and said, well that's an old C class from 2007, that's worth maybe 1800€, fixing that mirror at the dealership with OEM parts would exceed that, here's 2500€ your car is totaled. And then my dad got a junkyard mirror for 50€ and gave 60€ to a mechanic to put it on and called it a day. Still insured and still drives it no problem. Even the same color! Edit: Just realized I said side window. Of course I meant side mirror.


CMJ_888

Yep someone t boned me not too long ago. We weren’t even going fast. All it did was rip off one side of the bumper. It didn’t even completely tear it off. It was still hanging on. I tied it to the trunk and drove it around for like a week before insurance totaled it out. It was just the bumper and it was completely functional. Doesn’t take much damage now days for them to total cars out.


The1BannedBandit

I just read the first sentence and imagined your dad sitting at a light and all of a sudden some dude dives through the passenger window screaming about a cat and yelling at him to go before it kills them both.


Shouldhavejustsaidno

This seems wrong, if the insurer were classing the car as a write off they would keep the salvage, they wouldn't cut your dad a cheque and let him keep the car.


Fast-Leader476

That never works in your favor. “If” you were to get the money necessary to make repairs, you are still inconvenienced for a couple weeks. Most folks need their cars to support their life, so these periods of time impact them very badly.


earthdogmonster

Most likely still will be paying a deductible, will be running the risk the claim will impact tour future premiums, and of course will have to deal with the hassle of getting the car repaired. Not really worth it to prove a point.


dumbreddit

$500 deducible? No thanks. My luck she would only for $490 worth of damages and that would all be out of my pocket.


Veteran_Brewer

This is the kind of crazy that would make me immediately GTFO. Being right ain't worth it.


HugeRaspberry

Yeah - Obviously the woman who is off camera has issues... and from the tone of her voice - she would likely not only fuck up the car, but the other woman too... and probably try to fuck up her life.. for those who say insurance will pay for it - Nope - unless the woman doing the fucking up to the car has specific coverage - they wouldn't touch it - unless she is dumb enough to hit the car with her car... If she eggs it, keys it, breaks shit - slashes tires - none of that is covered unless she has homeowners or personal insurance. And sorry someone that mental likely has none.


WhiskeyandTequila

Crazy bitch would probably key her car if you left it unattended


RodneyRodnesson

Absolutely. For so, so many situations the benefits of just leaving cannot be overstated imo.


rocketangel08

bitch is more insecure than a master lock in an LPL video


corei3uisgarbo

yowch


Sorry_Ad5653

You fucking savage


MonsterNog

You didn’t have to murder her god damn


jdancouga

Please have my one and only free award. What a savage comment. Someone should post this on rareinsult sub


rocketangel08

LMAO pls post it


TheMiserableMunchlax

Insecurity 🥃


iHeisenburger

most likely she's used to get her way by bitching, sadly it works amazingly these days.


PacificoTheComedian

bro imagine gatekeeping a parking spot


DriftedSpice

Handicap spots?


Catalystt1421

Just say you’re a bad person.


Lyshora

Are you insecure?


RCA100

This is a visualization of the Simpsons, "Am I Handicap?". Yes. The answer is yes. She is handicapped.


Extension-Donut-8322

That’s a bit sad actually


Igotbanned19times

Lol i lost brain cells watching this video


NoArm4325

Roll the window up on that bitch . Simple


BedNo6845

That obviously insecure bat shut crazy beotch I wish we could see would literally tear her fingernails off scratching "whore" or "karen" or something else in the side of your ride.


Tardskii

“Are you insecure?” The best question to these types of people.


Faisal726

translation: I think you are pretty. Go away before my boyfriend sees you.


DustWarden

"And yes, I _am_ insecure"


Outcast90

It'd probably be a blessing. He sees her and how normal regular people are then dumps his GF.


RumbleRumbleNuts09

I’d just say “wait he’s your boyfriend too?”


Schlonzig

Poor guy did nothing wrong. Instead, date him, out of spite.


purpledemonz

this the best one on here so far 😂


ThisLet9363

Why ? WHY ???


ArchAngelSara

Her boyfriend cheats


happygato

She* cheats. Boyfriend maybe. But I find it’s the insecure ones who do the most cheating.


smallpoly

They feel tempted all the time and think everyone else must feel that way too. Really not that tough for most people to keep it in their pants and shut things down if necessary.


_G_Aster

Some are insecure because they've been cheated on before


sarcasmic77

Yes and some are insecure because they cheat and think others do it. No way to know here tbh.


Living_Astronomer_97

10000000 percent. My ex was always accusing me of cheating and turned out she was cheating


redmoon714

In parking lots.


MechaMaxxter

Plot twist, she's not her boyfriend but a really creepy stalker who mentally deluded herself into thinking he is


GusJenkins

This is 1500000% projection


2hoursadaycbaanymore

\*Are you insecure?\* - What an absolute moment. I laughed out loud at work, think the colleague in front of me knows I'm not really working :D


Traditional-Part-761

She parked in the “I’ve got a boyfriend” spot while obviously she doesn’t got a boyfriend. -5 point Hufflepuff. I don’t know what I’m doing here anymore.


[deleted]

[удалено]


derdast

I once asked a woman for a tampon because my then girlfriend was unexpectedly getting her period and couldn't leave the stall. Her boyfriend or husband got extremely up in my face about hitting on his woman. I was so perplexed with the tampon in my hand and wondering what kind of weirdo thinks that getting a tampon of someone is the start of anything sexual.


TheRedRocker51

You would be surprised how much trim I got in High School for using this very technique. That gentleman was clearly aware of this as well and reacted appropriately. /s


BallsackBallistics

Women☕️


SmokeRingHalo

People🍵


BallsackBallistics

😔yeah


Queensquishbish

Honestly this seems a little scripted but okay.


Professional-Tailor2

It is. She has a bunch of videos like this. She's just baiting people lol.


ZofoYouKnow

Its kinda too Good to be true isnt it. But if its scripted its damn Good acting.


diddlydooemu

Trust me, if somebody is this insecure they’re going to confidently blabber on with way more emotion than this. The person in that window is a grass rug. This is absolutely fake.


Askin_MrBrooks

Whoever wrote the script has an IQ of 5 then


BobbyPotter

Yeh funny how the video started at what seems to be the very beginning of the encounter. Surely there would be some back and forth before you start filming.


Plusquevie

i like the girl with the noserings


7thousand777

One of my favorite lines from pulp fiction. “The one with all the shit in her face”


ExpertFault

Wrong face is being filmed


kukukikika

Nah, i like the view


MSNayudu

Get your boyfriend's car out maybe? Like the fuck? Why go pick on random women? What if your boyfriend is cheating on you? *adds more rants to cause insecurity*


Black-eyez

whats a good comeback to this situation?


Alex_throwaway153

Hahahaha wtf


Longjumping-Monk-425

Why not film her too?


No-Celebration8140

Her bf needs to ruuuuuuuuuun


qeertyuiopasd

With people like this, the extinction of the human race doesn't seem like such a bad idea.


Itchybootyholes

They know each other, this is dumb


ZofoYouKnow

Prove it


Professional-Tailor2

She has a whole tik tok of videos setup like this of people coming to her car cutting her off. It's an act.


ZofoYouKnow

Damn it.


EliasBladetheawsome

![img](emote|t5_5tdqj0|10740)Bruh


dumiesun

Ahh America the land of the insane


Jager9727

AND WHAT HAPPENED AFTER


HandsomeBananana

are you okay?


_Swa-pnil_

> Are you okay? Bruhhhhhhh💀 the confusion in her voice


Professional-Tailor2

Guys this is staged. She has a bunch of videos setup like this.


Accomplished-Tap5345

this isn’t insecurity. this is straight up deranged


Jsnbbq

I feel bad for the boyfriend 😂🤣


Warm-Eye3939

I love the ‘are you okay?’


alberto_makina

I love how the other girl is wrong to the point of making the recorder worry for her and ask her if she is insecure or ok.


theycallmedags

Women are fucking crazy


iamcornbread

“I know you not just say that to me”


CaldoDeElotes

Pepper spray moment


corkedcoffeemug

^(parks car in parking lot) "*are you crAzY?"*


lakerskid46

Lmao love the are you ok?


DingleberryJanitor

My ex was insecure. After 3 years of being together and engaged she wouldn’t stop. Basically the entire relationship was me defending myself and it was torture. She didn’t care about me, she only cares about the aspect of being in a relationship. That’s why it failed cuz she was so mean to me when I wouldn’t do anything but work and sleep. Couldn’t eat cuz she had weight insecurities so I had to hide that. DONT BE IN A RELATIONSHIP IF YOU ARE INSECURE!


h0sti1e17

The best answer would've been. "No, I'm parked next to MY boyfriends car."


DazCruz

I feel bad for the boyfriend


orallabotamy

Should have told her she was done anyway with him, wiped her lips, and placed the car in reverse as she slyly giggles.


Tapapetttt

That blonde girl is so cute... the jealous girl knew her bf would have found her attractive


Wyanwink13

Women. *aggressively sips coffee*


sunny730

Women☕


CrywanEnjoyer08

Women☕


pigeon_gun

Women☕


LeMemeOfficer

Tbh. I would just have parked somewhere else. I know she is a crazy person but I just dont have the energy to deal with these kinds of people. The reason she acts like that is probably because there are a lot of people like me so she gets it her way too many times.


beans_on_toast69

Women☕️


Interesting-Ad-4221

Women…


Daraynemanx99

Hey!!! This is Reddit. They don't do anything wrong.


HappyGamer500

Women☕️ bro it’s a shit post stop taking it seriously


iiCleanup

The women are downvoting you


Komission

Bro we all know women aint real


CatgirlRawr

hi


Superbasgaming

I found you faker


ramdomdeeroftheday

Found the incel.


Chrono_Credentialer

This is so fake


Level_Needleworker_9

Day bih need a hug followed by parking lot etiquettes “hoe it’s a parking lot “


ruismies

I didn't believe these kinds of people existed, I thought it was a joke.


B3nkeii

Women! <33


According_Space_5583

![img](emote|t5_5tdqj0|10729)