By - Bernie_Bro_Canada
Nice as a friend but too batshit crazy to have as a girlfriend.
my only thoughts would be obscene
You thought that by getting a face tattoo, nose ring, and multi-colored hair, you would stand out. You would do this to declare that you have taken control of your body and that no one is going to tell you otherwise. That this makes you independent, a free thinking, and anyone who does not find it attractive and empowering is a conformist and a slave to the patriarchy.
It also tells me that you will continue down this road, doing all the same things that everyone else who thinks themselves non-conformist do. And one day, you'll see that you have gone too far, that you wish you could take it all back, that the things you did to your body are superficial and actually a sign of conformity within your own group. But there will be no going back, so you will continue to go forward with more tattoos, more scaring, maybe branding, maybe even facial surgery. And the regret will build up, and the 30 yo version of yourself will look back at the you that you are now, and wonder What was it all for?
Beautifully done ✅.
you’re hot as hell. i don’t know if these people know what a first impression is? like, we didn’t ask for your opinion lol, you look great
Curious how you got ur gauges that big by 18
Beautiful. Love you smile in the other picture
Cuuuute. Up the punx! 🤘
Super pretty 💕
You look beautiful
Clementine from eternal sunshine of the spotless mind
There’s a lot of unnecessary cruel comments in here. You look great… probably 100 times better than most of the bland dudes ragging on you. You should feel confident in yourself because you’re gold.
Most of the commenters assholes are probably bigger than your ears from having their heads shoved way up there lol
Someone who proudly wears her emotions as colors.
Stunning, I also chose to stretch my ears and pierce my face. Body mods arent for everyone but to us who love it, its an amazing display of beauty. Keep doin you!
2 1/2 is an impressive size to reach that young. I started at 16 myself but i only got to 1 7/8ths when I was 26, wish I hadnt taken em out for my last job haha. Im almost back to 1 3/4 though and plan on hittin 2 this time. You gonna go any larger?
nice! I have thin lobes so i think 3 inches is out my realm of possibility. Lookin forward to the update :)
3 inches is 7.62 cm
Your ears smell like sick cheese
You are going to regret those ears and tats in 10 years
Punk and doesn't mind attention. Great for a bartender or customer service, but can't be professional and meet the higher ups.
Marry me? O.o
Cool septum piercing bro! Look like you might be into witchcraft or something like horror
Really forward thinking. Super deliberative, and not the type to make life altering decisions without being certain about it.
I wish I would’ve quit smoking sooner, now I don’t even want to. I enjoy the fuck out of them and don’t wanna quit till I’m good n dead, I’ll be quitting a lot of things at point. I’m also thinking about how it would have been nice to have friends that were rich or started working early like myself so I wasn’t the only sorry sack supplying everyone’s weed. I’m also thinking about having a shot of whiskey, just bought a new bottle of Jefferson.
Poor ears and face
The tunnels are a tad to big, but you look cute otherwise. Definitely seem fun to hang around.
didnt actually notice them before reading the comment lol, i dont think they‘re too big
Why would you do that to your ears?
You look pretty to me, there’s nothing to complain about
I just want to throw this out there. you're gorgeous.
That said, if/when you get around to having kids, you are in for a WORLD of pain. I speak from experience.
Hey boys just because you can hide behind anonymity, don’t mean you should be a bag of dicks.
Yeah she’d ignore them in real life, so they’re trying to get some licks in behind the screen
Thank u grammar poleece
Those poor ears. And people call circumcision mutilation lol
Aside from that, and the face tattoos, you are stupid cute
I mean if you like it, that's what really matters. With that said, I don't buy that second sentence one bit lol
Id say mine would be your eyes, they have a distinctive shape
oh my goodness!! what i would do to have your beauty in my life, just incredible!!
Not a big fan of the nose ring and extremely large holes in the ears but, otherwise pretty.
Check out those elephant wedding rings 😆😆😆
Not my type. But you do you.
The misogyny in this thread is rich. You look like a nice Person who is confident, bold and free from conformity.
She doesn’t need you to defend her honour…
She posted an image of herself on this sub and people are responding with that.
They don’t necessarily have to be nice either…
I can also comment however I like.
As can I
Great choice of expression.
Lovely eyes and I wanna know your playlist
Gorgeous beautiful smile and a kinky sexy attitude
Would truly make a great Onlyfans girl
That you couldn't do well in a mosh pit
You look like you’re into butt stuff
My main thought is that I'm glad I double checked and saw that this wasn't the roastme subreddit before posting my comment
Face tat and barely 18? Daddy issues?
Cute. Your eyes are captivating, and your smile is warming.
What do your parent(s) think of your ears? And face tats?
You said you have them since you were 15, so I was wondering what they said to you about it at that age. That's awfully young to make a permanent body mod.
Nice thin neck, like a giraffe
Filtered picture of a female ¿
Ruined by those fucking gauges fucking A otherwise you would of been a straight up dime piece
You look like someone I’d want to be friends with! Love the hair and the plugs really suit you. I bet you love animals and have great taste in music
big hoops in the ear lobes are cool but I honestly have always wondered, how hard are they to clean? 0.o
Your ears are fucked for life
You look great, what size are your ears at?
That's really cool
You seem very self confident from the little smirk and very chill. You are also really cute and those gauges fit you perfectly 🧡
Why are so many girls doing this
I know I’ve been salty here but this is said with honesty and love:
Self-mutilation under the guise of self-expression, and so young.
Look I was you at this age. I did all this and not because I was a happy person. It’s a colorful shield.
It won’t bode well in the real world. I regret almost all my mods but my body is damaged from them. It really alienates and eliminates an Huge swath of people from ever engaging with you, professionally and socially.
And you may not care now but those are the kind of people who have the ability to make decisions on your life by flash judgements about you, primarily that you have poor judgment or are unreliable. Maybe neither are true, but no one can know this by looking at you.
An inescapable part of the human experience? Also yes.
I’m cranky because my heart breaks watching someone repeat my mistakes. You’ve already done it. The only thing you have left is a stiff upper lip when so many door slam in your face.
If you allow anybody to have control of and make decisions on your life just by their first impression of you, I seriously think you must sit down and think how you can change that. It's a miserable way to live.
Apparently you’ve never heard of court, or judges.
Two young women with identical drug charges before a judge, one looks like the girl next-door and the other looks like OP.
Do you think this will not have an influence on the judges decision on whether to send them to jail? Do you think jail is not some thing that hugely impacts someone’s life? Do you not think that this is a ridiculously common example?
No it's not, except if you associate with criminals. Why even be in court in the first place? So someone commits a crime and then depends on looking nice for the judge to spare them, well.. It's not the best example. If there were no drugs involved, no need to be there at all.
I tried, but you consistently display a lack of understanding. I quit, you win
Why, because I disagree with what you say? You have your opinion, all right, I just happen to think that it's wrong and things don't function like this at all. Anyways, don't be afraid to experiment more with your look and don't be so afraid of getting judged.
Just because you walked some kind of path at whatever the fuck age doesnt mean everyone else at that age like you. You are judgemental and presumptuous. It makes her happy.
I said that at your age too.
I’m sorry and what age is that?
Too young to know better, obviously.
I’m 40 years old.
You’ve had these things a few years, max. Teenage years. I’m the voice of the next 25 years.
It is a shame not everyone approves, but my mods taught me that I have to play by their rules to accomplish basic things like finish school, have a career, have a family—but most importantly, not to be treated like absolute garbage by most people who see you.
I really, really, really hope you fare better than I did but no one else I know my age with considers themselves successful/satisfied in life because of the unending judgment.
And no, It doesn’t just “filter out” the people you don’t want, either. You will definitely have them in your life. But it will definitely attract an abundance of bad men who immediately see you as an easy target. I’m concerned because you don’t seem to realize this.
You are not THE voice of the next 25 years, not everyone has to live their life like you did. You seem like you aren’t happy with it so idk why anyone would take advice from you lol. Fuck off
Nothing is permanant. She can have her ears stitched up it’s pretty common. If she cares that much about it in 25 years she can do that. Don’t yuk other peoples yum. You’re gunna give her a complex there is nothing wrong with how she looks.
If I’m “giving her a complex” on Reddit with *advice from experience*, then she is DEFINITELY too mentally weak for a lifetime of these consequences.
What are you? A therapist? Get out of here. I am telling you as an experienced person that I didn’t see anyone here ask to be psychoanalized. Your opinions are conservative and shallow.
Going to sell crystals at festivals until you are forty
That you are my favorite
I hear wedding bells
Gorgeous but you’re gonna hate those ears in your 40s.
I know, and I hope you are one of those people, but unfortunately life sometimes throws you curve balls and even more unfortunate, the majority of people are very judgmental and do not wish you well. Be very sure of your convictions.
honestly, totally cute. I love your vibe
you’re definitely way nicer than most people immediately assume. also getting bi vibes. do you eat hot chip and lie?
What’s the rest of the tattoo! Not getting pervy, just curious. It looks like a knife?
Very hard Sally from Nightmare Before Christmas vibes
I’d definitely pursue you if I was younger lol.
Very cute looks as though piercings and tats are ur thing . Mine too. I think they are very sexy on a woman .
It really seems like you’re projecting
Never been a fan of bangs but I understand it
You look like a chill person, probably like cats more than dogs, you’re into art and music, and an oddball one but you seem like you’d love to cook
fucking gorgeous!!! can’t even roast
I've never a fan of bangs I've always thought they look childish
Those ear gauges....yikes. You've damaged your ears forever.
I hope those aren't tattoos on your face.
My first impression would be me wondering what type of job you'll be able to get to support yourself looking like that
Yes you have to worry about it now. You options for a GOOD paying job is going to be very limited with tattoos on your face.
What are you going to school for?
Lmao fucking chill bro
She asked so I gave my first impression. I was under the impression people that post here want honest ones 🤷♂️
You posted your opinion but continued to go on about “high” paying jobs and the asking the school part is just another way to weasel in a comment about her life choices and body mods i feel
She's the one that replied to continue the conversation after my first impression. She said she doesn't need to worry about having face tattoos for a job. I'm genuinely curious what career field she's interested in that is accepting of face tattoos and huge ear spacers. If she's going to school, that also applies it's a career field where she'll be able to earn a decent living.
People can have respectful conversations and discussions when they may not be in agreement and someone could even learn something or have their mind changed. I kindly ask you to butt out. You aren't needed for this discussion
wow you are gonna regret those ear holes soon darlin . .
wait til ur 30 and you cant close them up without surgery . .
I'd honestly find that repulsive in a girl.
Then why fuckin comment yo lmao 🤣
Because our opinions were literally asked for.
What’s your stake in this, creep?
he thinks he’s saving her so then she’ll marry him
These threads are always crawling with groomers
Lmao me creep?? You’re literally calling her repulsive, dont use the opinions thing as a guise for shitty comments, people with body mods already know those comments and dont need your echo chamber creep
Never said they have to be 100% positive but there is a thing called tact which you lack apparently lol
You’re going to have some major regrets later in life.
Fun at parties, otherwise she's crazy
Holy shit I would be scared. Not by your face but by your earrings. they look like they hurt
wow that's amazing with all honesty. but seriously though, it's not something I see everyday so I would definitely freak out if I saw you at first but then get used to it after 2 minutes
well then I learned something new today!
What decent parent would allow that to happen at that as age...
If you’re in Western Africa, they start at 3 or 4.
I assume this is not OP’s home though.
This has daddy issues written all over it
You all should really stop using daddy issues as an insult
Stating facts is not an insult, unless you’re insulted by your own choices.
You can take it as an insult… Most of us will take it as a matter of fact
You like Melanie Martinez 💓
Absolutely stunning, as well as intriguing. You seem like someone I would be friends with. Especially if we met at a gay bar. Hope you’re doing well! Happy Halloween! 🤗🖤🎃✨
you ruined your beauty with those ear things
There's no way that's true
Phoebe if Friends were made today
What’s your tattoo of?
You look like fun.
Wow. Fuck some of the comments. You look like you'd be fun to talk to, and you like to switch things up often. I do the same. You look like you'd have some really cool tattoos and interesting taste in music. 😸 Also good meme taste.
They are giving their first impressions, its literally what she asked for?
Many of the comments here could’ve been worded differently.. you can give your first impression without being an asshole
Yes, welcome to the internet.
Ah yes because it’s the internet it makes it okay
People giving their honest opinion when solicited is perfectly acceptable in any forum, virtual or tangible.
Just because you decide to make yourself a victim when you read things you don't like; doesnt mean everyone else does.
Its called life, people aren't obligated to act in any matter just because you think its "right".
Have a good day!
Alright. You too 🤙🏻
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