By - This_sum_one
What an absolute unit
A pair of units.
I'm a decade in with my other half, quite happy so no need for the ol' Reddit psychology but I feel I should ask if it's normal to remember first date dates? I honestly haven't a clue.
Y you should break up right now because you're not ready to date if you don't remember every single thing that's ever happened between you and your... Oh. You said you *don't* need reddit psychology.
Then no that's normal not to remember the date but people usually remember details about it if it was good enough to make you want to date them
Had me for a second!
I have said in a separate reply that I remember the details of it, but the actual day and date...not a hope.
Same I barely remember my own birthday, I'm terrible with dates
Pick an easy day to remember for your wedding match date and month like 2/2 anything if not get married on Christmas day
Red flags!!!! 🚩🚩🚩🚩
I do remember, but that’s because it was her birthday too. So if I forget, it’s death.
ehh, i think the year you starting dating or got married along with the day you got married is important otherwise not much
Yeah those both seem reasonable and meaningful dates to keep in mind, first dates feels less so!
Out of all my ex's one acted like it was a big deal. Although that kind of nonsense is why she got dumped
I think it's normal to remember your first encounter
To the date though? I do remember our first time going out, and could possibly pin down a estimate by the film we saw, but that's as close as I can get
Oh true, I don't remember the date we first met. I do remember the date we officially started dating though
It’s not normal. I’ve been married to my wife eleven years. I don’t know when the hell our first date was. I know when we were married, I know her birthday, and our children’s birthdays. Everything else is stupid. I’m also very lucky because my wife is horrible with dates so this scenario will never happen to me!!!
Our 10 year anniversary was Oct 28th. I still remember our first date but it could be because I got in trouble and grounded right after it 🥲 or the fact that I had my first kiss that day.
I was 14, he was 15. We went to see Paranormal Activity 3 (only later did I find out he hates horror movies which makes sense cus he was grabbing my hand hard) with a group of friends. Then I agreed to go with him and his friend just down the street to Wendy’s after.
My dad was furious because I lied by omitting the fact that it was just me and 2 guys that went to Wendy’s instead of the whole group. So I got grounded for a couple weeks cus in hindsight, I put myself in a dangerous situation.
Hey! Oct 28th is our anniversary too!!!! 26 years! Woot!
Awesome! First person I know that shares our anniversary. Happy 26 years and I wish you many more 🎉
> me and 2 guys that went to Wendy’s instead of the whole group. So I got grounded for a couple weeks cus in hindsight, I put myself in a dangerous situation.
Yeah those square burgers are sketch, I don't trust em. And the frosty, it's not quite chocolate, it's not quite vanilla... I wouldn't want my daughter around that.
You got me there lol. The square ones are somehow better in my mind. Wendy’s>McDonald’s.
My dad thought I endangered myself cus my now-boyfriend and his friend could’ve raped and/or murdered me
I only remember because when I first started dating my partner, we'd already known each other and had been going out as friends for six months. I was hoping it was a date, it certainly felt like it was a date, and I later confirmed it was a date from her perspective as well. If I didn't have so much invested in really wanting our friendship to turn into a romantic relationship, I probably wouldn't remember at all when it happened.
I mean if it was memorable.
And the drive was tension free from that moment on.
Dat rocking into place when he sits back down, I'm no absolute unit myself, but I know that feel
Gotta get that right check in place
How do people remember those kinds of things anyways? I can barely remember my wedding anniversary, I have no idea when our first date was.
This is the kind of relationship I always wished I’ve had
Bro dads have no shame at all wtf are you tryna shame a dad for with your lookin ass
> they were kind of slutty
This is perfectly cut
Random - what kind of car is that?? It’s YYUGE
This what turns a Karen into a Karen….they both need love…..some shit you don’t need to tell your kids, they aren’t your best friends smh
Picture of good health right there. ‘Murica.
That's a big dude to be digging his own grave.
Nah his daughter is helping him
So many fat people.
Sigma male Grindset
Could have been I guess, still funny imo
Normally I would agree but I can see this being genuine.
If we count 3 cheesburgers per week on average plus an extra cheeseburger per bank holiday we are about 5000 cheeseburgers after their first date.
Not everything that you don't agree on is toxic. I agree with you that you can't expect to remember first dates of 27 years ago. But his jokes indicate to me that he does not feel any pressure to do so.
Nothing personal, but I'm getting a bit tired of people calling others toxic based on 30 second vids.
You are tOxiC
Feels like I’m in the highschool group chat all over again reading this thread
Truth as been told
Love the entitlement on Karen’s like that.
“We we’re together…., I forget the rest.”
Now that is what a dad looks like
Gotta be Oklahoma or Texas. This is the kind of people I grew up with.
Idk y...but this convo seems so wholesome to me
Wut what random number is 27 years. I didn't know women would make a big deal out of it. Sure every 10 years or 5 years would make sense but why is it odd
She’s not a “normal” woman.
Great response, but a better response would have been he couldn't remember their first date because he was constantly overbooked with dates at the time 🎉
Can you imagine being stuck with that for 27 damn years?’